I'll try and keep this basic, whenever I'm gaming a girl I'll become infatuated with her, she'll be on my mind 24/7, I'll lose my appetite, etc.. etc.. we've all had those feelings before, but when I get the girl and I'm finally in a relationship with her, I lose interest within about 2 weeks, it's almost like a switch, around the two week stage i'll suddenly lose interest in her.

It's happened to my 4 past girlfriends, I thought that it was because my first "love" broke up with me and I was still getting over her, however, I've now got my "first love" back, I was gaming her, etc.. and asked her out and she said yes. That was two weeks ago, and now I've lost interest in her. I literally spent 2-3 years in the past trying to get her back before giving up, now that I have finally, got her back, I've lost interest.

Why am I having this problem?

Is it some sort of emotional baggage shit you've got going on?

Are you depressed or fucked up by what happened in a past relationship?

Only you can know that?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

Sounds like you're addicted to the chase man! Don't worry, I am too, It's frigin insane when women get you into those positions even if this whole forum is about turning the tables on the girl lol

You need to get out of loving the chase, or you'll be chasing forever without anything substantial

Nope not at all, I was for the previous relationships, which is why I put it down to still getting over my ex, but I'm now back with her and the same thing is happening. I'm perfectly happy and content, my life is going just the way I want it right now, so I just can't explain why I'm losing interest in her

Be true and clear to yourself, what is it that you want? Once you find that form of clarity, your goals in relationships and what you get out of them should become crystal clear. You will then strive to attain set goals and float towards girls who have similar goals.

I was once unclear of what I wanted and finding girls that suited me became murky and it stressed me out and confused me. It was only until I looked within and discovered all that I wanted was casual fun. Now I am happy finding and getting what I want and not worrying about anything else

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My philosophy:
Hit and quit till you find one that you see fit!

possibly this. the girls you game, what makes you go after them? is it just their looks?

this is simple. You're not attracted, to the girl, you're attracted to the perfect image of that girl, so when you get her, you see she isn't as perfect as she seemed at first.

It'll go away when you will consciously realize that girls aren't perfect, they're just humans. At least that's the way it was for me, and I'm still dealing with this shit now.

I think Azzurro might be right, I do love the rush I get when I'm trying to get a girl, theres nothing else like it. My current girlfriend, whom I tried to get back for 2 years drove me insane. I could get other girls but I couldn't get her, maybe thats why I wanted her so bad, and now that I have got her, I've gotten bored because I'm no longer chasing her?

When going for a girl, its usually a mixture of their looks, and their qualities, do they make me laugh? can I be utterly stupid, childish and playful around them without making a fool out of myself? can we have intelligent conversations etc..