Guys,

question on mixed signals I've had from a really hot girl. I had a date with a 8 smokin hot blonde on Wednesday. It went great, I venue bounced her around some awesome bars where we work (sushi and cocktails in a lounge, wine on a rooftop garden, whisky nightcaps in a popular wine bar). It was all very public venues and near our offices so I didn't go in for the kiss but made sure there was some mutual kino.

I saw her at a club on the Thursday night. I chatted to her but played it cool as I wanted to do my thing and also didn't want to seem too into her and leave her guessing. Some other really ugly dude was trying it with her all night. I acted like I didn't care, made friends with him, and even gave him and then her my hat to wear for a bit of lock-in; while I winged my friend with another girl.

We messaged each other on the Friday late in the morning, I used mostly CNF and busted her balls. I told her she could buy me lunch, she said she would, I started a running joke about how she should wear a paper bag over her head and pretend she's not with me if we see anyone from my office at the lunch venue, she couldn't make it that day, so I suggested the following Wednesday, she said she'd do then and have her paper bag ready, etc.

So I thought we were all good. I met her through online dating, the next day I noticed she's changed her profile pic to be of her wearing my hat, but I can't look at her profile anymore.

I'm thinking I've lost control of the frame because I didn't escalate physically on Day 2, and I'm also too into her so my emotions are clouding my judgement, and I should just walk away.

What do you think? Should I walk away? Or should I call or txt her on Tuesday or Wednesday morning and see if she still wants to do lunch?

Go for it. I think it's Gunwitch who said "Until the ho says no you don't know for sho". To get deeper he talks about your inherent rights as a man to try it with a girl until she says no.

Yeah she might have said anything, but if she's replied to your txts and said to meet then carry on, and make sure you physically escalate until she says no. Then eject. Not before.

Any interaction with a hot girl is positive. Either you'll get somewhere or you'll get blown out and it'll be a good story.

Rejection also teaches you more than success. Already you would have learned a shit load about your game from Thursday night not going your way. If it still blows out then just use it to figure where you failed. Probably not being sexually agressive enough when she's DTF from the sound of it especially if she let some badly groomed badly dressed dude with less game than you, keep her attention for that night.

On clearing your head of emotions. That's a tough one. Ignore any non-physical things which attract you to her. Know it's just lust. You don't know this bitch. If you find yourself conciously thinking of her then conciously switch think of something else.