Guys,

so a bix-sexual ex girlfriend of mine has broken up with her lesbian wife. She's been totally on it, sending me messages, flirting with me publicly on my FB wall, etc.

Except I'm totally not into her. She was an annoying girlfriend. She introduced me to her whole family on Day 2! She's boring. We have little in common. She's only a 5 or 6. Etc.

The only reason I want to see her again is to try and arrange a 3some at some point. I was drunk and high the other night after a night out, she asked me when we were meeting up for drinks on my FB wall, I said this week. Now I don't want her to think it's anything more than a booty call and it's not a date.

Except it is pretty much a date as we've arranged to meet up and go for cocktails somewhere. I don't want to end up going out with her again as that's a huge step backwards and I'm just not that into her.

How do I play it so that she knows it's casual? So that she doesn't get hurt by that and think I'm a bastard? And so that she know's I'd be down for a threesome with a girlfriend of hers?

Show up late for the drink-up, and just tell her to come home with you as time is short. Do this a couple of time and she'll get the point. With regard to 3some, bring it up in conversations; paint a great picture of it for her and she'll buy it.

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My philosophy:
Hit and quit till you find one that you see fit!

Direct style.

In other words- paint it out to her that you no longer have any interest for a relationship with her. Put it in those words and don't be subliminal. Say - however, I'm more a casual/open-minded thinker & enjoy the 'quantity & quality' of life..

She'll get the hint if she really isn't dumb.

≠ LD

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