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PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2011 6:23 am 
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I hung out with an HB9 tonight who is an old friend. She is drop dead gorgeous, and I would really like to get something going with her.

I've been suffering from some AFCness lately and my dating game is horrible. I couldn't think of a lot of to say and I received a lot of IOD's. We were with my friends most of the night, and I never really could think of a way to build enough attraction to isolate.

I ran the cube on the way back to my car and I can say she seemed pretty interested in it. So at least I got that in.

The night didn't go very well.. but we had this text exchange I thought was interesting afterwards

Muze: What's the name of that singer we were listening to in your car? Mike Miller?
HB9: Mac Miller!
Muze: Awesomeness, thanks!
HB9: You're welcome! Thanks for hanging out tonight!
Muze: Not a problem, I had fun
HB9: Me too! Sorry if I was boring!
Muze: Yeahh, you totally need to work on that ;). I'm just playing, next time we'll do something cooler
HB9: Oh whatever :P sounds like a plan!

She sounds pretty interested here which totally contradicts the vibe I got from her. But now I have no clue what to do with her. My friend talked to her before the whole awkward night started and said she wanted to meet me for brunch sometime this weekend but I think that would be a bad idea after tonight.

Help me out guys.. what do I do next? How do I get better with dating to avoid the awkwardness?


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2011 12:14 pm 
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You might have a chance or you might be solidly in the friend zone.

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2011 1:44 pm 
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hmmmm, maybe mack

first thing i thought was "oh, she doesn't really care about him but wants a slice of the major stick pie"

just hang out with her and have some physical fun, and move on?


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PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2011 3:30 pm 
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Thanks for the replies! She's not the type of girl I'd like to date exclusively or anything. But I'd deff. like to meet up again and get a little more physical with. Any tips on how I should go about our next meeting and how I should physically escalate? Advice appreciated!


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