Let me bring you up to speed.

I been talking to this girl and hanging with her for a while now, it's almost routine. She's a HB6 and seems to have control issues. Says she gets jealous too easy and has had her heartbroken by all her Ex's (3). I did what Mack 2.0 told me to do, gave her all the control, sat her down and put it out there "we could be just friends, date, friends with benefits" la dee da etc etc.

She not sure on what she wants to even do at this point, because I told her to think about it. Brought the subject up about 2 days after the sit down. She played dumb "what did you want me to think about?". Ok cool, brought up again last night. She said she said.

HER: Just friends....
HER: idk.....
HER: I have had my heartbroken, and I don't wanna deal with none of that stuff anymore

I of course responded, but I'll leave that part out. Lets just put it like this, I feel I could persuade her into to a relationship.....but then again, I don't wanna do nothing she doesn't really want to get into.

What should I do here guys?

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

honestly?
thats bullshit from her.
i d put it as a shit test or something like that.

lol, shit tests?


You know, girls are ALWAYS pretty sensitive to what happens in the past, best option here would be to give her some space and organize some no pressure fun dates, just focus on making her laugh and making her feel safe, you'll see that soon enough she'll want to jump on your arms

ps: don't forget the headlines of keeping a woman atracted even if you're doing this plan

gl

Anakin,

Be her friend (and fuck her), you might end up with a really good relationship.

Think about it. You've already done way more than those past guys to show that you consider her and her feelings. You addressed the issue with her, and in doing so, you opened her up the possibility of viewing you different than all past scumbags.

If I were you, I would offer her a relationship that isn't exclusive (only because you know how much she worries and fears getting hurt). Explain to her that if she has "permission" to see other people and so do you, there is no getting hurt, because there is no potential for lying and cheating.

Y'know?

I would also let her know that, in my the meantime, until she is ready for some sort of commitment in the future, that you still expect to be getting some 'tang.

If she doesn't respond to that, move on, she's too fucked up.

You couldn't make it any easier for her...

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

be careful,if you "get her" way too much,you will be put aside

Well I'm frustrated beyond all belief now.

I made the "lets be friends with benifits" proposal, and she said no. That stuff requires feelings for her.......

So I guess Im shit outta luck.

And it's like WTF? Like she made clear IOI's at being with her "you look waay better than any of my Ex's" "I don't likge bright guys" (Im dark skinned) "My parents wont hate you" and she like started opening up and what not, showing me her model pictures, that she thinks are sooo horrible, when they are indeed the opposite. I'm stumped I wanna give up, but I know I'm not cause she's gonna keep pulling me in, then PUSHING AWAY.

UGHHHHH sucks, kind of got my feelings hurt by her trying to protect hers.

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

You know what you call a nice girl that acts like a bitch?

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

What?

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?

A bitch.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

you deff need to move your frame mate, she's outta luck, not you



and @ mack

hahahahahahaha, bitch indeed

Yeah you right man, but Ill still be friends with her tho......

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Dont Light The Dynamite, Then Get Mad At The EXPLOSION.....what did you expect?