Hi guys im new to the forum and would appreciate a bit of advice on what i should do in regards to this chick i was seeing/dating.

i wont bore you so ill try and keep it short and sweet.

basic run down-
ive ben seeing/dating this girl for about 6months and it was all sweet until the last 3months or so. she would call and text all the time but she wouldnt leave the house, not with me or her friends.
i knew she was interested in me but i also knew she was scared as shes been hurt before and all that (like they all say) but i couldnt handle speaking to her everyday and not seeing her.
just recently she told me she loves me and she cant live with/witout me but then she doesnt want to go out unless i go to her house which didnt happen very often. we had a bit falling out because all this frustration got the better of me and i snapped at her. she turned around saying that if i wanted her i should have put in more effort when clearly i was the one trying (maybe a little too hard). i think shes getting influenced from her work friend and this guy who also works near her (he wants her bad and she cant see it) so im a bit unsure what to do.
i havnt made contact with her in nearly 2 weeks but i want to but i also dont know how to approach the situation. shes been putting up facebook status' with smiley faces ":-)" but im not sure if shes just trying to get under my skin because i told her that the guy from her work wants her but shes so neive that see's him as just a close friend. he comments on every status and photo she posts.
additional info-
shes very stubborn and cant admit when shes wrong regardelss of the situation. i think shes been a bit spoilt from young and cant handle a bit of constructive critisism.
what should i do? im really into her but dont know what to do or what not to do. any advice would be greatly appreciated. thanks

first of all, i might think that you're the one being naive, happens all the time to a good intentioned guy, don't put yourself down

secondly, why are you really into this girl? Does she have any outstanding quality that leads you to believe she's actually diff from most girls out there? If you take more than 2 seconds to answer this the best way for you would be forget bout it, the way you described this girl... she makes me wanna puke on how childish/wierd she is = oneitis


if i'm coming out too aggressive that's not what i mean, just mean to help ya out


cheers

my gut told me to log onto her fb and sus it out because something just didn't seem right. anyway I worked out how to get in and funny enough I found a conversation in her inbox with that guy I mentioned and it seems like they do have something going and it seems pretty full on.
so now I'm just trying to get myself over it and pick up where I left off 8 months ago. but for some reason I want to confront her about it. would you suggest I just leave it, call her or rock up at her door? I'm planning to keep it cool, no use crying
over spilt milk!
as the saying goes: "nice guys finish last" from now on no more mr nice guy. there's just too many twisted females in the