question towards PUA's, im curious how many PUA's out there do or dont care about the girls emotions.
So, do you have a heart or are you a prick?

I have a heart, I learned the hard way what it's like being a prick. Ever heard of karma? Well you get pounded by it when you're a prick. I once had a prick teacher. Well that motherfer got replaced by the department chair who had the charisma and wasn't as bipolar..started learning like magic after that.

So yes, the same applies to girls.

I used to have a heart, before I was screwed over because I treated a girl like a princess.

Now I have a heart, but I have a prick shield surrounded it.

Without respect for women and himself, a man's not a PUA he's just a prick.

Pick Up should not come from a place of anger, revenge or manipulation, it will just self consume. The most important things in a Pick Up Artist's life should be love and abundance whatever his pick up style might be.

Maybe the real question should be, do we express our love for women as much as we should or do we mostly act "cocky" to protect our feelings?

"Love" can mean something as basic and honest as wanting to do her doggy style immediately, its all about paying attention to our feelings and hers...hope that made sense, most women and I share a mutual love for doggy style lol

Best Luck!

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"Nah man, I love women, they are beautiful and delicate...
but I still warm up to "99 Problems" before approaching" lol

I'm like Hon Solo. A prick with a heart of gold. I'll find out that a girl has been complaining that I'm a complete ass hole, and then later that night that same girl will tell me how rare someone like I am (someone who listens, cares, and is willing to help/ knows how to help).

When I'm a dick, it makes all the nice parts of me are that much nicer and makes the girl feel like she is special if she's managing to bring out these parts of me.

When I'm nice, it makes the moments where I drop a punishing comment or start a freeze out that much more punishing.

I'm like this because both mentalities come naturally (thanks to what my psych class has taught me might be part of a personality disorder). I have the capacity to care about almost anything, and with deep feeling. At the same time, I really don't give a shit about most things. I don't care about something or someone unless I CHOOSE to, and when I do choose to, I don't half ass the amount of care I put in. It's kind of a problem, but I use it to my advantage.

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There is always something that could be said. Because of this, people forget that silence is also an option.

...that sounds a lot like me...and its considered a disorder? lol

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"Nah man, I love women, they are beautiful and delicate...
but I still warm up to "99 Problems" before approaching" lol

@Byzantine: It can be considered part of a disorder if other red flags are presence. This specific trait is somewhat anti-social disorder sounding.

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There is always something that could be said. Because of this, people forget that silence is also an option.

My heart was ripped out a long time ago. I put it back in and now it's a functional part for pumping blood, that's about it.

Any woman worth a damn will understand and work around it. Haven't found any yet...

I'm a prick.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

I am actually a huge softie and it used to cause me all sorts of trouble with women.

Now I realize that I'm PROTECTING them from pricks. And protecting them from pricks requires every shady trick in the manual.

I`m a prick. I had the "fortune" of being raised by women. They would speak freely about how they really think and feel about men. This information soaked into my mind at a young age and I have been a prick ever since. Women care about men`s emotions about as much as we do theirs. In other words, I don`t put too much stock into a womans feelings, unless it benefits me in some way (sex, money, lack of drama, her shutting up).

Im a prick with a heart. You have to earn the right for use of my heart though.

Interesting. I was raised the same way- by all women, and I think it had the opposite effect on me as it did you. For me, I always saw the fallout of what happens when men are dicks. Have always aimed at not being the average fucker that most women come to know.

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There is always something that could be said. Because of this, people forget that silence is also an option.

I have one and the shield is on construction.

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hmm a bit of both, of course growing up i was taught how to be a gentleman and how to treat girls. Unfortunately most times that does not result in anything but being used by women. So of course i turned into somewhat of an asshole and girls started rolling in.

So am I a prick? Yeah because I only reserve real emotion for people I actually care about. Think of it as a selective process, whats the use of revealing your true self to people that may potentially abuse it? After they have jumped through all the hoops and proved their loyalty I show them my heart.