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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 8:49 am 
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Had a girl in my class last semester managed to get her number after exams asked her to come with me to a cafe for some hot chocolate..yummm lol she said no at first but then said yes if i take her 2 hungry jacks which is next to uni for ice cream i said no ice cream at the cafe we boarded the tram i asked her a few times which i shouldn't have and then she said once she comes back from vacation i have alot of chances she then leaves for vacation but i call her the night before she leaves she sounds very happy we talk for a while she says she will call me from vietnam thats where she went to never did just left me a text saying its her lol and now that shes back she doesnt seem interested she doenst initiate convo everytime we board the tram i always sit rite infront of her guys she doesnt talk much and doesnt seem interestd in what im saying

How do i get her interested??


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 9:03 am 
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Punctuation is always nice.

Anyway, I think you made a mistake by rejecting her proposal to get ice-cream. You should have said something like: "yeah, sure, I guess that wouldn't be too bad".
As for what to do now, try to avoid her for a bit; don't sit near her, don't hang around her or try to contact her. After a week or so, try talking to her again and make sure you keep up a very sexual frame.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 9:41 am 
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Punctuation is always nice.

Anyway, I think you made a mistake by rejecting her proposal to get ice-cream. You should have said something like: "yeah, sure, I guess that wouldn't be too bad".
As for what to do now, try to avoid her for a bit; don't sit near her, don't hang around her or try to contact her. After a week or so, try talking to her again and make sure you keep up a very sexual frame.
Hey sixpounder, thanks for the reply.
You see i thought her asking me for ice cream was a shit test :S
I only see her once a week. I wana get her asap lol
and also do you think she was interested in me before?


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Punctuation is always nice.

Anyway, I think you made a mistake by rejecting her proposal to get ice-cream. You should have said something like: "yeah, sure, I guess that wouldn't be too bad".
As for what to do now, try to avoid her for a bit; don't sit near her, don't hang around her or try to contact her. After a week or so, try talking to her again and make sure you keep up a very sexual frame.
Hey sixpounder, thanks for the reply.
You see i thought her asking me for ice cream was a shit test :S
I only see her once a week. I wana get her asap lol
and also do you think she was interested in me before?
I wouldn't interpret her asking to go for ice-cream instead to be a shit test unless she's actually asking you to buy it for her, to me it sounded like she was just suggesting a different location.
If you only see her once a week, you may need to cut her out a little longer, at least two weeks, you can always be talking to other women in this time and if she hears about it from someone else or catches you at it, so much the better.
It sounds to me as though she was interested before, maybe not head over heels but there was something there and after a freeze-out, you can build on that foundation because I'm willing to bet her interest isn't entirely dead.

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Punctuation is always nice.

Anyway, I think you made a mistake by rejecting her proposal to get ice-cream. You should have said something like: "yeah, sure, I guess that wouldn't be too bad".
As for what to do now, try to avoid her for a bit; don't sit near her, don't hang around her or try to contact her. After a week or so, try talking to her again and make sure you keep up a very sexual frame.
Hey sixpounder, thanks for the reply.
You see i thought her asking me for ice cream was a shit test :S
I only see her once a week. I wana get her asap lol
and also do you think she was interested in me before?
I wouldn't interpret her asking to go for ice-cream instead to be a shit test unless she's actually asking you to buy it for her, to me it sounded like she was just suggesting a different location.
If you only see her once a week, you may need to cut her out a little longer, at least two weeks, you can always be talking to other women in this time and if she hears about it from someone else or catches you at it, so much the better.
It sounds to me as though she was interested before, maybe not head over heels but there was something there and after a freeze-out, you can build on that foundation because I'm willing to bet her interest isn't entirely dead.
Freeze out successful. basically, today was 2nd week of me ignoring her. I think she stared at me a few times and yes, I spoke to girls infront of her and made them laugh alot. What should be my next move??


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 06, 2011 9:29 am 
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I think it's funny when people say:

What should I do?

(ok did it)

What do I do now?

(ok did it)

What do I do next?

(ok did it)

What do I do then?

(I've never read a thread conducted in this manner, where the original poster reported back a positive outcome)

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2011 12:52 pm 
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any advise guys??


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