| Hey gang,
Alright so I just wanted to throw a line out into the community to see if I could get a little bit of advice on a situation I have going on.
So I gamed this HB8 for a little while, I was never serious at all about it, I got plenty of IOI's, lots of Kino going on, number closed her within 5 minutes etc (what I'm saying is she's nothing out of the ordinary, and very easy to chat with and I'd be nearly worried about being friend-zoned just because she seems like one of those girls).
I planned to meet up with her for a coffee a few months ago right after meeting her and texted her to sort it out but I had to flake, and I tried to reschedule once but she was busy (I rarely see her out and about due to age difference).
I then went away to Europe for vacation during December (during which she was over studying in France) and I planned to meet up with her over there however she flaked once on me over there - didn't bother me really.
So I haven't spoken to her since then (honestly forgot about her), however just the other day on f*&kbook she messaged me with words to the effect of:
"Heyyy AFCdego,
Long time no speak, I haven't seen your face out in ages, when am I seeing you next?"
I got her number again (lost phone) and texted her however after a bit of playful banter she just didn't reply (damn her! thats my piece! :p).
Basically my question is:
What is the best way to go about "revving" or cold starting her again to get her to the point of attraction without losing value myself by texting her after a no response.
I'm willing to just ignore her to the point she talks to me, but I feel that could take a while and also I have had this situation before and due to a numbers game I feel I could use some advice for the future.
My first thoughts with her would be just to call her up and try organise a 'date' (coffee, hangout etc) but beyond that I'm a bit stumped - so really I'm looking for some left field sort of responses which aren't message her, text her or call her, unless they are the only ones.
Thanks all,
Dego
|