Right i need some game advise...A girl thats fucked me around for 9 months and ended up saying lets be freinds..Saw her a couple of weeks ago we went out for drinks, she stayed at mine and nothing happend!!

Right i just got her into a funny connverstaion and said lets go out for a drink tnite i f your free? she said busy tnite but some time in th week..and she sent me her new number and said txt me, and i said maybe tmoz as im busy wed and thur

ok how do i react...

A: do i txt her tmoz and say do u want a drink tnite, or dont txt her at all so she doesn't see me as chasing/needy again, and thinks "oh" he didnt txt..

B: txt her try and get a drink with her and get a bit more flirty/break rapport?

i think we become to comfy, and she doesnt see me sexually, but when i saw her last week and nothing happend, i may have blown her last chance she was giving me by not making any moves..


and this girl has said to me before..she may like me more if i didn't like her so much, so im a little freind zoned to i guess, but want to fuck her again.

what do u reckon guys?

Wait a few (two or three) days and call her (don't text her) like "I'm free tomorrow evening, at what time should I pick you up / should we meet at the bar?". Be assertive. If she accepts, just go out with her and negate her to death while sexualizing the conversation bit by bit, specially with interesting stories that somehow relate to you having a great sex drive, but not making the stories about actually having sex. Try to increase kino around every turn of the conversation and if she's being responsive to your kino, invent some excuse to go back to your place and make sure your place has a sexual vibe going on and kino escalate from there to the bed.

If she declines put the ball on her court by telling her that you've got a bunch of commitments/events this week and that if she want's she can call you when she's free, but that you can't make any promises on your availability. When she calls (and if she's even slightly interested she will), tell her you need to clear up your schedule and that you'll get back to her. An hour or two later tell her you can make some time for her, but that you have a previous commitment so you can only hang for a couple of hours. You'll probably have to wait until the next date or be really quick on taking her home, but you need to leave for your 'commitment' to make her feel that you're actually busy and that you won't let her have control. If she gives you excuses (either on the initial call or after leaving the decision on her) or gives you the run around, just forget about her, keep picking women up and someday she'll see you with two beauties on your arms and will call/approach you to resume what you guys had.

ok, first of all, if you ever contact her through the phone again, ever, make sure you actually call her, actually, you should never message her again, it's dead

second, get somewhere, open up the game with her, enough bullshitting, this is obviously not a good relationship for you, nothing's happy, be a man and deal with it, either close the deal and get a good relationship going or go out there and meet more girls, or even better, get 2 friends and go out right now, make some new friends, would be even better if the friends you make are female

cheers

ok thanks for the replies...Ok i'll go for the call..we used to speak on the phone all the time then it faded out, and after that it always seemed if i called she wouldn't answer and she'd call me, it would be on her terms..she seems to actually respond to txt (maybe because she can hide behind them) same with facebook chat i speak to her more on there. but ill try and call her and see..

i can only really do tmoz this week, and she likes to go out at wknds and get fucked up, so thats a no go. so i may try the call tmoz? or wait?

i have slept with her a few times before, we had a wknd of sex, then she got with someone else, then i walked away for a bit, then we ended up having sex again, and that was in October and sinse then ive kissed a few times on nights out together but nothings avolved..like i say i think she knows i like her to much!! and im to easy for her..shes really attractive and gets loads of attention from other blokes, and to be honest is prob fucking them..but not me anymore!!

so do u reckon get her out flirt/bring up sex and try and get her attraction back and kill the friend stuff, if thats possible?

ive been out with other girls, tried to play the jeloust card, but its like she knows shes got me! she said the other day she wants me to be happy with other girls, i dont know if shes testing me/totally not interested or what.

but i feel i alweays seem to win her attention back for a bit, just need to get her sexually attracted again?

thanks guys...ps u want to see my next post lol..

let her know how you feel then

don't overcomplicate things mate


my idea is, get her sexually atracted right, and when you're into it, gettin wild, tell her how you feel, enough of the friend bs, you want the relationship to be real, you want her to only be yours, forever, then after you say this you fuck her like there was no tomorrow

happy ending!

With all Due respect I call "Onitis" on you!

You will lead a more fulfilling positive life if you simply DONT call, text or message her ever again! If SHE contacts you great if she doesn't great as well it will be on your terms. You're walking a muddy and cold terrain now dont fall face first.

Best Luck (Get some lady friends!)

Thanks for the feedback guys i will take all on board..
May try and get her out, get her back on side sexually, try and fuck her, tell her how i feel
and if all fails.. ill walk away, dissapear and delete..ill give it one last go tho!

but like u say i think shes got me good and proper! its annoying cause i met another girl and thought i saw the light and i forgot all about her..but then if u read my "lost interest" post your see what happend there lol...andnow im back chasing this one!!

i dont think ive got the game for these attractive attention seeking chicks!!!

Oh any tips on how i can try and get more flirty again and break rapport?

thanks guys

you know, some of us look for fuck buddies, some of us look for a cool girlfriend, i myself only find amusement in love, so that's where i'm speaking from you get me


be sassy with her, find something to bust her balls, show her some value and that you value yourself more than her

imagine, if you were the best guy in the world, and any lady that got you was the luckiest lady, how would you react, play around with it and have fun with her

cheers