Riiight, to cut a long story short...

I've been working at this company for the past 6 months. There's a MILF who works here, who is 22 and her kid is almost 3. Her and her child's father is on and off, and he's a complete twat to her, and only gives her money for the kid if she sleeps with him.

Oh, not to forget he's a boxer, and a bit of a nutcase at that.

I see her everyday, and i'd love to smash her, infact I see it as a bit of a prize. Especially as i'm 19 and there's that age gap, albeit only 3 years, it's an older woman.

She's a bit, what's the word, not dumb, but she's quite vulnerable, and i'd be worried she'd want more than a ONS.

We used to email each other all the time, until one of the directors told us to pack it in, so now she's a little bit cautious! She wanted to meet up on several occasions for a drink, but i've always been a bit iffy about it.. I want to go to her house, not for a drink!

Oh, and she won't give me her number incase her ex sees it as it's 'more hassle than its worth'

Any advice is more than welcome!?!

You don't know that her ex only gives her money for their child if she sleeps with him.

That is something she has either implied or told you. Either way, that's a huge red flag right there that she wants to dump her personal unhappy baby-daddy info on you.

Also, the fact that he is a crazy boxer is rarely, if ever, going to work in your favor.

Oh, did I forget the part about NEVER GAME WOMEN YOU WORK WITH?

This thing is bad on all fronts. Move on. Work is for work. The club is for pussy.

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Ya im agreeing with Mack on this one has too much baggage to get involved right now, but its worth keeping an eye on incase her and him completely cut each other off.

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