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She knows you're interested, or, at the very least, not not interested. By daring you to take action, in a sense, she's giving you an invitation into her pants. Still, you have to proceed with caution. Trust me.
I'd go out with her a few times, as friends. Dance with her, as friends. Touch her, but in a friendly way; not in a creepy or perverted way. Take note of her response, and act accordingly. If she likes it, escalate it a little bit, and if she doesn't, tone it down.
Basically, you should show her that you DO have the guts to do "it." You should emit confidence and sexual energy WITHOUT being blunt or coming on too strong. Build a foundation of sexual tension, and add to it gradually. That way, if for whatever reason she gets cold feet, you'll be able to continue the friendship with minimal awkwardness.
Awesome, that's exactly the kind of response I was hoping for. I will try my best. I've been reading a lot of 60 years of challenge lately - would you suggest I use the methods he outlined for increasing tension (only a more gradual, more subtle way)? Seems like 60's methods are specifically geared towards strangers in a club and building tension quickly and rapidly... I don't know if it's properly suited to something like this.
Thanks a lot for your help!
