So in my past (before pua) i never really had a whole lot of circumstances where i wasn't too in to a girl at first, and then something turns on the attraction switch. It made me realize why "hard to get" truly does work, once something doesn't come easily, you want it.

I met this exchange student, talked and danced with her from the moment i approached till she left, which was when i got her number and kissed. After a couple of mediocre dates, i couldn't find out why i wasn't super attracted to her, her body was bangin', but verbally and emotionally the chemistry wasn't there. So then i decided that some physical chemistry was all i really needed, which was when became constantly busy. We only kissed at the end of the dates, for reasons i cannot fully express, i just didn't feel like trying all that hard; maybe due to there being not alot of challenge or sexual tension? We had alot in common and i could hold a conversation, but i felt i wouldn't be really interested until i made a move.

2-3 weeks pass and i get another girl's number, (haven't been doing alot of pick ups due to other things) and the exchange girl sends me a text, confirming my suspicion, that she's into another guy. That night everything kind of hit me, how she was, by far, the best dancer among the girls i had recently met, and the most physicaly attractive. So now that she's more of a challenge i guess my feelings grew towards her.

Do you guys think these are just false feelings, and even if i did get with her again, it would be the same as before? Also how important do you think the physical aspect is in relationships is, in terms of developing feelings? And if you were in this situation/if you have been, what would you do, or have you done to get her back?

What should i do?
Thanks all