out of practice in flirting,how to recover back?



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PostPosted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 4:51 pm 
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i realize that after a long time not gaming woman,my conversation skill with woman has gone down really bad,i used to make a girl laugh when i want to or my friends laugh when i want 2.i even can get a girl number who i have not met yet n she also doesnt know who i am and give her a call and make her laugh and enjoy talking to me then sealing a date.

now it seems i can barely hold a entertaining conversation yet alone make a girl laugh...have anyone gone through this?how can i sharpen back and get back my skill?

now im less playful,not flirty,i barely tease a woman unlike years ago where i know if i say this shes gonna laugh and constantly teasing her.now i cant even tease a girl without thinking bout the outcome..i think i now cares to much about whatother people think i m starting to run out of ideas of what to say with out sounding like a boring guy....how can i cure this?need help n apologise for my english.

And also how in the hell this could happen?am i really out of practice?


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PostPosted: Fri Apr 01, 2011 10:03 pm 
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You are out of practice and you are nervous.

That's not a good combination.

You are going to have to do away with one until the other goes away. Let me explain. You've got to get rid of your nervousness, so you can get practice, once you get practice, the nervousness will stay gone.

How do you get rid of the nervousness? You stop caring about trying to pick them up and you start caring about just being friendly and funny. Just opening sets to be friendly and talk. As you start to see that you are capable of making a decent conversation, your nervousness will go away.

Then you can start trying pickup.

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