The first Sarge of the day which I tried to do was at a bus stop, I saw a girl a year younger than me and so I walked up to her asked her for directions of what bus is going to the train station. She told me and then I quickly tried to transition (I don't know whether this is really a good transition or not, if not please tell me) and asked her where she's off to, and then she told me she is going to see a friend, and I said, yeah that's pretty cool, I've just got to trek it all the way home, it's about a two and a half hour journey home and I've literally just come back from a match in which I lost, I am currently on a 17 match loosing streak, and then she reacted, really? That's so bad, ah well, there's always next time. And then, she Re-Initiated the conversation and asked me where I live? I said yeah, pretty close to here, about a two minute walk from this bus stop. I asked her and then she said I live a bit further away it's about ten minutes away.

At this stage I was stuck in two minds as to what to do next. Do I either try and talk more and create a deep rapport within a short amount of time and then try to get her number and meet up with her at her house, or shall I just keep on talking and see where the conversation goes. So I kept on talking and tried to link the conversation into something more that I could work with in terms of trying to get her number or Facebook. Now, because I had too much fear of rejection having got so far in the interaction, I didn’t try and number close or kino escalate, I had a chance, particularly to kino escalate as she and I were shivering and it was really cold, I was thinking immediately after the interaction had finished to myself, that I could have implied that we should hug and then try and escalate it further into a kiss. But I just simply pussied out and I got her first and last name in the attempting to get her Facebook instead, I searched her name up on Facebook the next day and couldn’t find her, I don’t know what happened?

Also, a similar situation happened on the platform of one of the underground stations, I saw this beautiful woman and went up to her asked for directions successfully transitioned, or so I think. And also, my body language was very strong I was leaning against the wall of the platform and gesturing with one hand. She was 23 sadly and I was just 17. I tried to ask for her Facebook after having a deep conversation with one another, and then she immediately thought I was gaming on her and said that she had a boyfriend. She gave me her Facebook, because I said, staying calm, yeah I would just like to talk to you because you seem a nice person to talk to. She then gave me her Facebook, but I couldn’t find her either! I was so pissed off.

Any ideas anyone, what should I do in order to kino escalate successfully and kiss close without being blown out? And how would I get her number without making it seem too obvious? Also, how do I get any sort of contact details without making it out that I am hitting on them? And lastly, when she hesitated to give me her Facebook, and I said you seem a nice person to talk to. Does that make me stay in her friend bracket?

Thanks for reading, sorry about it being really long, any advice would be really appreciated. Thanks in advance

Vay

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For getting the number, something like: "I've got to go but you seem cool; give me your number and we'll hang out some time!" The main thing is, don't make it a question or a request, it's an imperative.
If a girl accuses you of hitting on her, something like: "sorry, I didn't mean to give the wrong impression, I'm just being nice." This shifts the social awkwardness onto her and chances are, she'll try to make it up to you by complying (at least to a degree).
Don't worry about being friend-zoned, it takes more than that to disqualify you; keep up a sexual frame when you're around her, flirt and be playful but don't overtly come out with it.

Final thing is, I've gotten names that facebook couldn't find as well despite the names being real, when this happens to me I google the following: obviously replacing the name "Mary Jane" with the name of whoever you're looking for and you can further restrict the search by adding in locations or whatever.

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