Basically, I met a HB8 on a night out, went back to hers and slept with her (we're at university). After that I went round to hers maybe 5 or 6 times over the course of two weeks, chilled, watch films etc. and of course had sex. It was nice! Now I assumed this was casual, gave her a kiss before I left each time etc.

On another night out I kissed someone (who it turns out she knows and her friend told her what i did) and received a text from her saying "I heard you had a good night last night" to which it got to the topic of the specific girl, after denying (heat of the moment stupidity) and when I asked if I'd done something wrong, she said replied with "not at all".

Now, since this point (maybe 3 weeks ago now) I've not been invited around to hers once, her replies to texts are blunt and closed and I don't understand why with it being so casual before, I wouldn't have been mad if it was the other way around!

I've still been working on it since her text and tried to get back involved with her, I don't want a relationship with her, nor am I getting oneitis, but I fancy the challenge of getting back to where I was! I turned out needy the other week texting and apologising for the incident to which she replied we'd 'definitely' see each other again, but again her replies since have been one worded and closed!

Any tips on winning her back round guys! I fancy the challenge but feel my inexperience is what's costing me!

Thanks!

chill out.

you can invite yourself over to her. say sorry face to face and not on text. don't make it a big deal. maybe just for a minute.. and when things are already okay (after that minute of apologizing) have fun again.

thanks for the reply, so basically i text her saying 'when am i coming over?' or do it as 'im coming over', hopefully not setting myself off for a crash and burn here haha

text things with intent.

if it's me i'd do it like. "hey, down at your apartment?" she may reply yes or no.

if she says yes, i say "imma go there"

just do it natural and with intent