Me and my Ex G/F we broke up she was the one that wanted to break up about a month half, cut comunication ofc, and I went moving to other targets.

Last Saturday I was on a Club chillin, and she aproach me " Hi Andrew" but she was very quiet and bit nervous didnt say much then her friend aproach me hug me we are good friends my ex was a bit jealousy so we start chatting while my ex went quiet and move a bit far away. Until her friend said goodbye maybe she my ex was too confortable (but damn she was the one that aproach me i didnt even saw her). (She was with three girls, so I would say they are on the prowl lol)

When I was with a girl I saw my ex looking at me. Later I literraly bump into her accidently. She look confused while I looked more confused because it wasnt on purpose. she didnt say anthing, she looked a bit dazed and we look at eachother and then she went her path.


Well the next day she txt me sayin sorry, that things in that night were a bit awkard but she still isnt confortable with me. I said Ok.

So what do you guys think of this situation any feedback? its strange she was the one to broke up and now acting like she misses me or affected by my presence. I still like her but no way im going back but I would like to know what is she thinking.

She may be trying to keep you around or keep you thinking about her to make her feel better. was she an insecure girl? my gf broke up with me last year when I had oneitis but she also texted me twice some months after saying she missed me and stuff. I guess that's one of the many reasons I fell in love with this PUA community!

The BEST and only thing you should do is completely ignore her. Don't text back, don't say anything to her and get on with your life.

Agree. But fuck her again first. Why not?

She's an easy target. She's jealous of the new girls. Offer her to hang out again 'for old times sake' bounce around end up somewhere you once fucked reminisce ("Geez just thinking back ~x (months/years) we were always in this (bed/bathroom/wendy's/wherever you fucked)" and see if you can spur-of-the-moment close. She's going to expect more, and that's exactly when you just walk off. Good way to give the relationship a final "I win" tag.

I like those "I win" tags.

Would it really be an "I win" tag though if he still likes her? What if it messes with his head and it affects him getting back on track?

Likely not.

I-WIN Tags are for a special breed of emotionally-crippled and hyper-cynical asshole, such as myself. LOL.

In no way am I promoting the I-WIN Tag approach.

You could make a commercial for it Mack.. "I-Win... 'there's nothing like going out with a bang'

LOL.

It would actually be something like:

"The I-WIN TAG, something you can snuggle with in the total absence of trust and pervasive inability to put faith in another human being! Not only will your I-WIN TAG boost your ego, but it is also guaranteed to not fuck your friends! $9.95, order now!"

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lol

Or it could be the usual awkwardness of a couple who broke up seeing eachother for the first time again.


I mean... WOW... where have you kids be hiding for the last 10 years of your emotional development?

We had already been together after the breakup. She then contact me after that night saying sorry but she still wasnt confortable with me that why she left. then ask me the name of the girl I was with.