So far all is going well, I have turned the tables and have her slightly confused because I'm using her "hot and cold game" on her, when she gets close I step back, when she steps back I draw her attention back, after reading some random websites about psychology, I have also looked deep into what she is doing and believe she is either:

1) Testing me to see if I am an equal - important for her to see if I qualify as a potential love interest!

2) In fact is in love with me subconciously but still has to admit it conciously.

3) Afraid to take the next step with me.

Here is some background to help you decide - Met her about 8-9 months ago about 5 months in got attracted to her, she has been calling me "Hun", "Hunny", "Goof" (jokingly) and teasing me constantly now for the last 3 to 4 months (by teasing I mean kissing me, being very sexually active towards me to which I responded in the same way back), she's Bi, (Not a problem for me I'm very open minded), but her ex GF is still around and she still has feelings for her. about 2 weeks ago the "hot and cold game" started, a mutual friend told me I was being too clingy and pushy, I admitted I was and backed off, then I got a message saying "it was cool we all make mistakes..." - put me to thinking she missed me as I pretty much broke contact with her in any sexual way, just acted nonchelaunt towards her keeping my distance and waiting for the right time to approach again (yeah sounds a bit oneitisish, but she makes me feel good and happy... doesn't stop me picking up other girls whilst I wait for her to be ready though), I have cautiously changed my attitude over the last 2 weeks to be more confident and a bit more cocky in a good way, and telling guys that are pushy with her to "back off" [Bad Boy Attitude - can look after myself and her], and the "hot and cold game" continues with me taking somewhat of the control, and her now chasing after me albeit subconciously I think she does want me but doesn't want to admit it to herself as the last guy she was with was a total "DICK" and treated her badly!

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Life is for living, so I ain't giving up!

I always say it o my fellow players, if you dont make the move on her, somebody else will, she might be havin 2 balls in her mouth right now.
What is with the games? Game is designed for the first few hours maximum. You have been in for a long time. Just meet her, keeno her, look in her eyes for 5 seconds, then look at her lips and trust me u can turn her on easy.
You say affraid to take next step with me? YOU ARE RIGHT MOST WOMEN DO NOT KNOW WHAT IS GOOD FOR THEM. You have to show her the way, make her feel its ok, watch mysterey, picture yourself as him. Keep ur eye contact, hold her for 3 seconds hard and tell her "you know what?" smell her and let her go say"nothing", mak moves like this and you will bang the fuck out of her hopefully tight ass
kudus