Here's a scenerio;

I was in a bar last Saturday, and I was texting a friend at the bar, I caught this girl looking at what I was texting, and before I could say 'ohh, you're a nosey one aren't you!?' she said 'oh god i'm sorry, I was only looking cause you had a Blackberry!' I took it from there, and got her number.

She's a nice girl, but she's quite serious and doesn't seem to playful. The other night she put something in her BBM status about how she 'hates how she gives a fuck', so she's obviously sick of being messed around by someone.

Ironically, we're both going on holiday to Florida in July, (and both staying with 5km of each other!) now do I put in groundwork in and hope that we meet up and fuck there, or do I try it with her now? Or infact, just leave it completely as she's hardwork? Probably only a HB6-7, it's just a bit of a laugh!

Hmm if your looking for a bit of fun and she is hard work, I would just be flirtatious with her, dont hang out with her too much though you want to coast along(slow burn) to that holiday without being friend zoned for not making an advance with her. Then try meetup and try it on during the holiday, when she is basically away from her real life and more relaxed and open for adventure.

Then you just had a holiday fling which 'just happened', afterwards your back to reality, which is nice closure if you want nothing more out of it, or you could just try now but there is alot more hard work and emotional baggage involved then.

It's quite ironic, as last night she messaged me saying 'so.. this drink you owe me then, when we having it!?'.. i replied 'ha, i don't mind, i'll see when i'm free and get back to you'.. her response was 'so it's a kinda date?' - her response seems a little needy for me, i don't see why she had to ask that!?

Anyway, i'm not sure her into her I am, and can't make my mind up whether it's worth going ahead with just for experience!

Seems like she is quite keen fella! if she was in the bar and gave you her number she is on the look out for men and it looks like you wont have to wait for the holiday after all

remember you dont have to indenture yourself to marital servitude because you sleep with or get involved with her, any other reason for not exploring a possibility?

I think you're right really mate, and no there is no other reason why I couldn't go there, I could just see her being a little bit clingy and expect more than just a cheeky rendezvous, but I suppose there's only one way to find out!

Experience and a confident boost can't be bad, even if she's not the skinniest girl in the world... right!?