Hi guys, i'm new here. I'm 19 and i'm from England, pleasure to meet you all!

I'm trying to get into this whole PUA train of thought, and trying to build up my confidence around the whole concept. I'm half way through reading "The Game" and find the whole thing amazing.

Recently i've become fairly good at getting numbers, bbm pins or whatever else by meeting girls out in clubs, however, I have a horrible habit of getting to know girls too much, and getting attached to them.

Last night I had a girl stay at mine that I had been on a few dates with, bedded her, but now I leave myself feeling that I want a relationship and want to be with her, when deep down I know I don't, and that I just want to be able to 'play the field' so to speak.

This may sound a bit pathetic, and possibly also out of place on here, but any advice is good advice I reckon!

Cheers x

I think the best solution is to keep gaming, when you have several girls on the go all of whom you see regularly, it is less likely you will become attached to one, and just by seeing more then 1 person its a constant reminder that theres plenty of fish in the sea, and something you can refer back to in the future when suffering from one-itis.

Yeah i've slept with a few of them.. i think the thing is if i sexually connect with someone and get on with them really well, it just leaves me thinking this could/should be more.. the reason I know I don't want 'more' is because the thrill of a girl letting you go that extra step and removing her clothes and feeling her for the first time gives me such a buzz, that going back to her again can't contend with! if you see what i'm saying!

I know what you mean, but at the same time you might keep moving on and eventually regret moving on from the girl you "connected with" so well. Maybe it would be best to take one of them to the relationship stage and see how it works out, see if you like it or not properly (I dunno if you've had a girlfriend before or not) and then decide accordingly what to do after you sleep with a girl in the future.

I've been in 2 Drak (admittedly only about 7 months!) and they've both cheated on me and fucked about, so i've just been playing the field (or attempting to!) ever since..

I appreciate your advice though mate, it's all a learning curve I think!