All guys reading this, just post your opinion and what you do.

When i talk to a girl/woman i tend to mock them, for example; When They say something that could be weird, i over react, "What, are you kidding" "Your not the smartest person are you now" While doing this with a smile. The think is, im bloody dreadful at picking up IOI'S, i think i just get involved with me having a laugh, i forget about IOI's, The girls always laugh gently (Whether it's a bitter and bitchy laugh i don't know) I notice that, i kino, but i am unable to detect any sexual tension, i think it is there, but not sure, so i'm not confident enough to close.

Does anyone else mock, in a fun way. These are not neg's are they????

What do you all do.. And how to tell IOI'S And how to increase sexual tension and detect the tension.

i'm not a fan of mocking.

this is just my opinion.

but if overused, it can become like the kindergarten kid who picks, and picks, and picks.

"huh huh, nice shirt, huh huh, nice face, huh huh, nice answer"

it's not that it's necessarily offensive, it's just that it's usually not as funny as you think, lol.

know what i mean?

Yeah, mocking gets old. In most cases, it makes you come off as a dick. Just be smooth, and give her the impression that you want, but don't need, her without trying to prove that you don't need her.

I agree. Been there myself. All I gotta say about you right now is that your insecure. A girl is not gonna sleep with you if you keep mocking her. Your not creating any comfort which is extremely important. Also, you gotta throw in your own IOI that lets her know you like her. Basically, just mocking is push and push, there is no pull.

there is a balance, never fall to one side(mocking)

balance out mocking and nice comments to a point that works.
i say more nice comments then i do mocking ones. works good for me

i guess the problem is with the word mocking.

mocking is NOT negging.

mocking is obnoxiously impersonating or recreating a person's mannerisms, voice, or other characteristics. like "parroting".

negging is ... well ... negging. or making funny jokes about something to make a girl be a little on guard and frame control, etc.

joking = funny
mocking = obnoxious

joke = two guys walk into a bar
mocking = nah nah nah nah boo boo

First of all, thanks people for all your help, Mack, I am not being obnoxious, they always laugh, i have never crossed the line and they don't turn, Ouch i think your right, i am insecure about how i look, i've always thought that i am doing this to make me feel confident I've been told i have a "Gorgeous" Smile yet i can't take a compliment for shit i just get more insecure.., which is not good.... Soo, another example that i have said before what i did, is this girl said she got shoes from a friend and i said "Well that's a bit skanky" with a cheeky smile of course, when saying this she playfully hit me on the shoulder and laughed, i should of then later on in the conversation complimented her, e.g on her top, or smile or something like that??? Or do i compliment her straight after. What are examples of teases???? Too see how i need to change my game..

Thanks guys

i don't think you are being obnoxious. i am just drawing the distinction between "negging" and "mocking".

it doesn't sound to me like you are actually "mocking" as you claimed to be. it sounds like are, in fact, "negging".

like i said above, "mocking" is obnoxiously IMPERSONATING an individual.

but the fact that you described it was "mocking" was what gave me concern, because none of us are there to hear what you say to these girls, so we can only go off your description, and when your description is "mocking", that is a concern. because no one likes to be "mocked".

just so you know, i don't want you to think i'm trying to give you a hard time. i'm just trying to figure out if you are actually "negging" or "mocking", so that anybody who replies her can have an understanding of what is actually happening to give you appropriate and helpful advice.

Cheers mack, Well i don't know what else it is apart from mocking, I wouldn't say what i said was a neg, for the reason that i believe a neg is a small compliment yet shadowed by a "mock" or whatever you want to call it, The hand model one for example " Oh your a model? A hand model??" This is saying one part of her body is model worthy, which is a small compliment, yet saying that she is not good looking enough to be a general model. With me, i don't do the compliment bit lol, it doesn't SEEM to harm my game, but perhaps i would be able to pull more, when doing NEG'S instead of what i do now. I have been trying to stop these comments i am making, i stop myself from saying things, This is nothing to do with picking up but just an example how i am stopping myself. At work, HB6, Not attracted to her to be honest, but anyway, she was singing along to a song, i was thinking what would be funny was to say, "Hey **** Can you stop please" (Serious tone) Her: "Why?" Me:"Cos your really hurting my ears" (With a smile). I did not do this because i thought about this thread about me doing this. But i couldn't help but think, hold on this would be funny for me, her and others, She wouldn't be offended. (Knowing she isn't serious about music or singing..) Would you say that would off been a NEG, an INSULT, a TEASE?

Cheers

from dictionary.com

1.
to attack or treat with ridicule, contempt, or derision.
2.
to ridicule by mimicry of action or speech; mimic derisively.
3.
to mimic, imitate, or counterfeit.
4.
to deceive, delude, or disappoint.

...enough said, lol