| Hello all,
I'm new to the forum, but not exactly new to the PUA field.
Some background on my perplexing situation:
Meet a 'two set' of women at a local bar; focused on one I liked, while not excluding her friend. Bought a round of drinks, danced with 'the one', engaging small talk, got her number, and she even initiated a really nice hug before I left...basically as far as I'm concerned - a nearly flawless first encounter.
I waited three days to call. Left a message. She called back 5-10 mins. later. She's on the way home (8pm) from being out with friends. We talk for 5 mins. and before I can arrange a first date she says 'can I call you back?'. No problem. She didn't call back that night. The next day I text her - 'hey, what happened', but in a non-desperate way. She texts back, showing more green lights - 'I want to see you, etc.' The next night I call. I leave a light, short message - 'how's it going; call me, etc.'
No response from her.
Normally at this point I'd drop it and move on. BUT we had such a good attraction/connection when we initially met, and all of my past experience with first encounters says - with an encounter like that, peruse it. It did cross my mind that I am getting gamed...
Any advice on re-approaches at this point?
Thanks!
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CHAT
