Hey there, I'm new here and I'm an AFC looking to start working on becoming a PUA. Best to say I'm below average AFC as I'm still a virgin. My question is kind of rhetorical because after reading a lot of the PUA material I can see where I went wrong in a lot of ways, but still something I don't quite understand with what happened with this chick.

So we started chatting on facebook a lot and I arranged to meet up with her. Went on a date to the movies. Week later she comes around to my place and make out with her. Later that night she messages me she doesn't want a boyfriend and wants to keep things casual. Fast forward 6 or so weeks and I'm having a party and invite her over and she suggest we bunk together.

We both been drinking and get to the bedroom. At this stage I'm horny as, and I end up all over her. She makes some comment about she will be too loud and doesn't want my brother who is sleeping in the other room to here. Can't remember exactly what I said but I continue kissing. End up taking off her clothes and start to finger her. Then I briefly stop to grab a condom (big mistake I should of kept with the foreplay). I continue to finger her then she tells me she wants to stop so I comply. And tells me she likes me but isn't ready.

So the next day she messaging me and brings up how I was escalating for sex. Mentions something about being a dick tease. I tell her yeah I would of liked to have sex but its okay that she wasn't ready. Then she goes off at me for being shitty that I didn't get any and makes some offhand remark about how guys are all the same and that I made her feel cheap. It was freaking confusing conversation. And it ended up with her saying that perhaps she should of had sex with me.

What do you guys make of that?

After that episode she would come around and sleep in my bed but wouldn't sleep with me. One weekend at her place she seemed to be initiating for sex but decided to stop again. Then after couple months, one morning I try again and she totally goes off at me. Sends me text about how she is over it, and all guys are the same and how I just want to get my dick wet etc. etc.

After that happened, about month later she tells me she just wants to be friends. And likes me but not as much as I like her (I had one-itis for her at this stage) and she just wants to be single. 2 weeks later she is in a relationship with some other guy.

Mentions something about being a dick tease. Then she goes off at me for being shitty that I didn't get any and makes some offhand remark about how guys are all the same and that I made her feel cheap. And it ended up with her saying that perhaps she should of had sex with me.

Don't let this girl creep into your head. She is playing those stupid little games girls play when they don't get what they want or something is eating them up inside. You should have asked what her f*cking problem was.

She wants to have sex, then she doesn't, you move forward with it, then she b*tches about it. Really? She sounds like a f*ckin head case to me. Women are notorious for twisting sh*t around and keeping guys confused, but she is off her rocker. That, or she is one manipulative b*tch. You are better off. I feel bad for the next guy that has to deal with her.

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