About 2 weeks ago I met a girl who meant virtually nothing to me. She thought I was hot but I wasn't doing anything about it until she basically just layed down on me and moved right into kino, because my friend told her that's the only way she's going to get to know me (and he was right, lol). So the night immediatly after I was still pretty distant/shy until my friend somehow got both him and I making out with her and her friend. I ended up fingering her that night. She seemed pretty head over heels for me, but (regrettably) I was only really using her to practice some of the PUA stuff that I had learned (I'm a total newbie, btw). I had heard that cocky funny works very well over text messaging so that's what I was sticking to for the most part, and I almost always got her texting me 3 to 4 times a day (and I don't mean she was sending me 3 or 4 texts a day, I mean that we would be having 3 or 4 text convos a day). Problem is, I think I came off as only caring about sex, which for the most part is true... But now I have real feelings for her, and she has begun to pull away a lot. I've already taken her out on an 'accidental' date and she still probably thinks I'm shy. And now I haven't talked to her in a few days, sorta as a take-away. Here are my questions...

1) How am I supposed to open her up again? What should I say?

2) How do I keep it up once I have her attention again? If I continue with the cocky funny method, will it seem like I haven't changed, and I'm still only after sex?

3) Am I a total basterd for manipulating her feelings in the beginning?

Like I said, I actually care for this girl now, so any help would be appreciated.

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