So it's been many years since I have been on here and I have searched on this but couldn't really find anything. So any advice is welcome.

Ok so long story short I am a military guy and my girl at the time lived about 9 hours by car away. She was going to fly and see me and all would be fine. However about a month or so before she started talking about marriage and what not and kinda scared me so I was like maybe this isn't a good idea so it ended...she was hurt..etc etc

a few weeks ago i said hey i am going to come down and see you and we will figure it all out. Anyway tonight she is like i am kind of seeing someone..obviously a very new relationship and she said she is confused but we all know what that means. I kind of told her how serious i am about making it real and everything...so i guess we shall see but any advice on what to do?