I'm half confused right now. Last week, I ran into my friends girlfriend who I've hung out with in a group before, and we exchanged numbers. She invited me to her girlfriends bachelorette party that day, but it didn't pan out because they all got wasted and didn't go out after all. This weekend she texted me & "the gang" wanting to hang out with us. We ended up at a karaoke bar, and I kept getting IOIs like her punching me playfully when I would joke with her, and some kino back and forth. Then when we go to leave, somehow I end up slow dancing with her. She had her head leaning in on my shoulder too. My other friend says "let's go to the other bar" and as half of me felt like I should disengage, I went to leave, but she said "after this song," pulled me back, and wanted to keep dancing.

Her boyfriend (my friend) has told me she's not his type, and he prefers blondes. He says she'll say I love you, and he wont reciprocate. Although, he thinks he could "grow to love someone" maybe. This irritates me because she IS my exact type. He's away on business right now, and they've broken up in the past so I'm thinking she might be starting to lose interest in him.

So what's your take on this situation? Should I talk to my friend? Should I tell her if it doesn't work out between them to give me a call? Should I downplay the IOIs, and treat her as "one of the guys?" I really don't think I would ever cross my friend's trust, but am just curious as to what other people think of this situation.

Your thoughts. Your advice. Please.

I would leave this situation.

Two things can be happening hre She can be using you to make her boyfriend jealousy what a better way to do with a friend. Girls are manipulative Ive seen some crasy shits girls doing that.

Or

She can be really interested, either way there other girls if he is truly good friend I would leave this girls Bros before Hos, you are going to make avaiable for a girl who is still dating a friend of your. And your friend maybe he is not telling the truth , had a friend who said he didnt like his GF and want her only for xxx. after she dumped him, he became depressed so Its your call. But remeber there are other girls.

Good advice, thanks. Just wanted to hear it from someone else I suppose.

I talked to other women that night anyway, so there's always plenty of fish in the barrel.