So I go out tonight and I wasnt planning on meeting any1 or even sarging cause the bars I went to with some buddies kiinda sucked and theres usualy an older crowd anyways, however Im at the bar getting a drink when I see this HB7 come in alone... my mind starts going crazy w different ways to open and the should I apporach or not.
I decide to give it a minute and go back to my friends and see what happens, if a bf came in or what, after about 4 min or so she is still alone, so I pretty much chug my drink and go to the bar stand next to her and order my drink. I look at her and ask her a question in a low tone of voice, this made her get closer to me and ask "what?" so I tell her I like her hair and how I think is very feminate and shit blah blah blah. We talked for couple minutes and I found out she was single ect. but I left after that. I didnt know what else to talk about so I just left on a good note. (she was all smiles and shit)
Like two minutes later a buddy asks me to go for a smoke and on the way out I ask her if she smokes, she did. So I asked her to join us for a smoke and she did. We talked blah blah blah. When we came back in I asked her to join my friends since she was alone and she agreed. We talked for a bit some DHV on my part gave her a compliment or two, talked about our signs blah blah blah. I felt like I was running out of this to talk even if she was still excited soI excused myself to the bathroom, to come up w a number close minimum strategy
When I come back THIS IS THE PROBLEM I see my friend hitting on her... ... which obviously pisses me off! But I play it cool cause I know she likes me somewhat, and join the convo, oh btw he took the chair I was in
but watever I get there and own the convo again he turns around and we move foward. After a bit longer my other friend asks for a smoke break, I agree but she said she was good which is fine by me so I leave trying to not be needy or insecure. When I come back he was all over her AGAIN!!! Btw by now I had her phone number which she asked for and she even called me right away to make sure it was my number.
During the conversations we made plans to see each other during the week maybe tommorow. Ehotehr way I though everything was going good and dandy until we r about to leave caus ethe bar is closing. I tell her Im leaving soon and she says she is too, so I walk her to her car, on the way out the guy who was hitting on her says "Ill see you Monday..." WTF?!?!? as we walk out she tells me they are going ice skating that I should join them.
The problem is I dont know how to react to this one. If I should just ignore her... or pretend it didnt happen. She pretty much is gonna meet w my friend and eventhough she invited me I think she only did it cause I head about Monday. I dont think there are sexual intentions w her and the other guy however I just dont wanna go and make it into a contest of who gets the girl, u know? Should I just let them go toghether and see what happens or should I try to meet her tommorow or even sunday? Im really confused
Ty for your help and sry for the long text
Janzi
PS Im new to this PUA thing so all the advice I can get is appreciated
CHAT