Hey people

Usually Im fine with talking to attractive women but recently met a girl who I actually really like and when speaking to her I just dont know what to say... The convo goes into something boring like work or exams... BORE and she must also think its boring as well in her mind if I am!

She does tease me a fair bit actually, like I was saying how certain films are lame cos the story is always about some loser crying about finding love... and she said oh sounds like the story of your life.. to which I just laughed... I want to tease her back and I have stuff to get her back on its just in the moment I never seem to be able to say it.

I need help on how to move topics onto interesting things (and what kind of topics to talk about rather then BORING topics - heres an example of something lame I said... she had a cold sore the other day and I said oh what happened there...she replied ahh its annoying... then i said like an idiot... i wonder how cold sores happen... WTF!!!!! she must have thought what a fool).


As you can see I need help! THis is just with this one girl... every other girl Im not hardcore attracted to im fine with!

haha should been like "Nah it's cool Stds are like Pokemon anyway... you gotta catch em all"

Don't do it, it's a joke.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

lool!

any advice? haha

yes, don't hook up with a girl who has herpes. for real. too many others out there.

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You can't forget about me, stupid. Everywhere I go ima have my own theme music.

Not finding something interesting to talk about is your problem. Bring up something cool to talk about, something adventurous, or something she can learn from, being knowledgeable is a DHV...don't ask the usual, how's your work, how's exams..etc? she hears it all the time from her guy and girl friends...be different, find something she likes and relate to it without lieing. commonalities usually result in attraction

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Thanks Lava! Sorry for late reply.. been away for a while

For some reason I really struggle to sometimes find interesting things to talk about with people (mainly just women but sometimes with guy colleagues etc). Like theres so many things I can talk about but I just cant bring it to a conversational level.

You are definately right tho that not having something interesting to talk about was my problem with this girl.

Any topics or areas of topics of things I can talk about with future girls?