How to qualify without offending



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 15 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 12:46 pm 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum
User avatar

Joined: Thu Feb 24, 2011 4:38 pm
Posts: 122
As the title says. Basically, there are girls who are a bit egotistical and so might take offensive. I was thinking something like this the other day though, where I agreed to meet up with a girl in a different place than mine but then after a while asked "why should I come to see YOU all this way", at which point she replied with something like "if you are looking for a reason, then there is no point" and I asked her if she took offence and she said yes.

Or basically in general this thought popped into my head when you ask for reasons and they say "if you need a reason, then there is no point".

This makes me think, when and where should you qualify, and under what circumstances or situations? Is it necessary for someone to qualify after they have been interacting for some time?


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 6:22 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:24 pm
Posts: 477
Location: Slovenia
Try to make smaller qualifications first, before you do the bigger ones. For example:

Small: Are you adventurous/good friend/spontaneous/interesting/emotional... (those are positive women stereotypes)

Medium: What do you got going for more than your looks/What makes you a good person/Why are you special/What is interesting about you...

Large: Why would I want to get to know you/What are your 3 qualities, that a stranger would love on you/Why do you think I like you...

When you are going through qualification phase, do a few smaller qualifications at first, then few medium ones and at the end the large ones.

Hope it works :D

Enjoy ;)

_________________
How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 6:42 pm 
Offline
Member of MPUA Forum
User avatar

Joined: Thu Feb 24, 2011 4:38 pm
Posts: 122
[quote="Kupid"]Try to make smaller qualifications first, before you do the bigger ones. For example:

Small: Are you adventurous/good friend/spontaneous/interesting/emotional... (those are positive women stereotypes)

Medium: What do you got going for more than your looks/What makes you a good person/Why are you special/What is interesting about you...

Large: Why would I want to get to know you/What are your 3 qualities, that a stranger would love on you/Why do you think I like you...

When you are going through qualification phase, do a few smaller qualifications at first, then few medium ones and at the end the large ones.

Hope it works :D

Enjoy ;)[/quote]

Whoa thanks. Just to ask, are there any good articles or literature qualification because I'm having a lot of trouble around the subject.


Top
   
 Post subject:
PostPosted: Sat Mar 19, 2011 7:00 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Zealot
User avatar

Joined: Tue Oct 19, 2010 4:24 pm
Posts: 477
Location: Slovenia
Yeah Sinn has a lot on this subject (Those small/medium/large qualifications are acualy his theory not mine :D). He speaks about it in his daygame seminar. But aside to that, for qualification, he uses the same model as Mystery's A3 (bait-hook-reel-release-[and he has a RAPPORT QUESTION at the end])

See ya ;)

_________________
How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 4 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link