Okay, i got into this pua thing because of a oneitis i hade about a year ago. I got over her, laughed at the fact that i had this oneitis. Became good with pickup and didnt feel this needy emotion towards women anymore. Now i met this old fuck buddy of mine. a girl that showed me interest when no other girl would and she is HOT by the way. The reason she did this was because i had no emotions towards her so i was my cocky and funny self around her. Now i meet up with her a year later and all of a sudden theese needy clingy emotions towards her start creeping up on me when im out with her. I panicked and tought to my self theese toughts in this order "huh, what are theese emotions im feeling, im proabably buzzed." "Wait...No... could it be?" "Ohhh fuck no this cant be true, no not again" "Ohh FUCK NOO I GOTTA GET AWAY FROM HER"

The thing is that we were playfull, teasing, touching and EVERYTHING and at some moments i even tought she wanted to kiss me. Then she began talking about other guys and stuff so i went cold and starting negging her and showing disinterest again. Now i know how attraction works and the more disinterest she shows, the more i want her. I KNOW HOW THIS SHIT WORKS, Yet as youv heard a thousand times, i cant get her out of my mind now. Since im pretty good at PUA i got alot of other beutifull girls wanting me and yet i only think of HER (yes i know, this is just a rerun of what have been said a thousand times before)... but im just curiouse about what could have triggered it. Could it be because she was the one showing me interest when no other girl would??

im going through something very similar right now. God it is so FRUSTRATING! I think for me though its just to get validation. I've never had this problem before, it just like this damn record playing in my head all the time. The problem to, is I know her and I wont work out as a couple, plus I am in the friendzone. The other problem is I am AFC so its hard for me to break away.

Good luck! hope it works out for you!

Yeah, but im not sure if its oneitis or not because she is in no way perfect, she has MAJOR flaws which i have no problems seeing yet they dont bother me that much, intelligence maybe a few things lookwise too but she is very kind and understanding etc. hmm... whats the diffrence between love and oneitis?

Nice. Interesting

I'm having the exact same problem man.

I've recently been having casual sex with an ex girlfriend of mine, we broke up a few years ago. I've been fine for the last few weeks with it, seeing other girls, etc.. but yesterday when she told me that she'd been sleeping with someone a few months ago, I don't know what happened, my frame just collapsed and I went completely into myself.

I haven't spoken to her since yesterday, my wussy side is really trying to force its way through, telling me to message her and try and talk to her about it, my logical PUA side is telling me wussy side to shut up, and not to do anything about it.

I'm battling with my head right now, and every now and again the thought of the of them fucking comes into my head and I go right back to square one, battle ensues for a few more hours.