Hey guys! I want to get some opinions of how I should proceed with this...

Here's the background:
Me & this girl have been in an exclusive relationship for about a month. Things started off great (Huge IOIs from her) but seems like they have died down a little lately.

Here's the situation:
In the past two weeks we haven't spent hardly any time together. IOI's from her are still there but not as much as they used to be. She has been pretty busy lately but she probably could have found some time for us if she had put forth some effort. Today we were both free & we still couldn't manage to get together.

My question:
After reading a lot of PUA material over the past year or so, there seems to be 2 schools of thought on this. 1st is to just play it cool and act unaffected. Stay busy & be less available than she is. 2nd is to man up and tell her what your expectations are for an exclusive relationship and this ain't cutting it. What's your opinion and why?


Thanks,
W

I would talk to her, and say without being too needy, if she tells fuck off, you know what to do. If she disagrees just brush it off and I would turn the game on her and see if she missed,

Thanks Carlos! That's my thoughts as well and that's probably the way I'll go (unless someone has another more appealing idea). Just gotta figure out how to say "The last two weeks ain't gonna fly and I need to see you more" without sounding needy... LOL

W

I don't know how others view this situation (other than Carlos). But see, I don't let my relationships get to this point. Sure, it's still a new one. But I still find a way to see my girlfriend.

Talk to her. Tell her how you feel. That since you two are in a committed relationship that you want to see her more often. To me, that doesn't come off needy AT ALL. You're telling her what's up, and if she doesn't like it, there's other girls who will.

Keep us posted dude!

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