too alpha female? (bitch shield)



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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 5:30 am 
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hey guys

i recently had a incident that has been bugging me. i know that confidence is a big part in pua but this was a major blow...

so anyways iv been out doing openers getting great interaction from girls... and loving the fact that this all works. but there was this 1 group of girls(3 or 4) where the alpha female was just too "alpha". story goes, i walked up to them had a opener started the convo thought, i was going well asking for an opinion on something(i forgot), a couple of the girls answerd and were like "blah blah" then the bitch shield appeared. i read alot of stuff about this so i tried to work it into by saying "keep the questions coming, i like this, your an alpha female... alot guys like that".. she replies with "alot of guys know wen to f*** off aswell"... i tried to recover by negging by saying " wow is she always like this?" to the other girls, but before any of them said anything she then walked off saying "cmon girls", i got 1 sympathetic look from 1 girl from the group and they all left...

talk about a massive blow to my confidence...

help?how do i react to this if it happens again??


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 6:54 am 
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How about next time, mid-sentence if you want, walk away and instantly open up the nearest set, you leave with your value and the bitch is left hanging. The bitch is then gonna feel like you disposed of her. Win?


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 7:06 am 
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lol, when a girl says "a lot guys wanna fuck me" or something similar, A good respond to that is "don't flatter yourself, that's pretty much the situation with all girls." Knocks there ego down and let them know there not special.

Btw, no matter how good you get, not all sets are gonna hook. Your talking about people here. Do you think the best basketball makes 100% of the shots? These guys are getting paid millions and they just gotta put a ball in a basket. Don't let blowout get you down.

Also, I agree with post above, if you get blown out, open another set soon as possible.


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PostPosted: Sat Jun 04, 2011 1:06 pm 
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lol .... you should have negged the girl harder ... almost like insulting...
the girl that gave you sympathetic looks , you coulda grabbed her and K-closed her, alot of the times you don't need social proof - if a girl is attracted she will stab her own friends in the back.

it's not like the whole set blow you out ... it's just this one girl that fucked up shit for you and her friends, try to be a bit more persistent next time - more aggresive in these scenarios

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 06, 2011 9:19 am 
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cheers for the advice guys..

instantly i thought of insulting her but i ddnt wna turn the convo into a arguement where i look like an idiot bcoz i couldnt hack a insult... thats y i just did a light playful neg...

how would i start a new set after this without walking away?? any examples?


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just walk away and open up a new set, nearest one.


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