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So how should I re-establish communication if we haven't talked for a while.. like 2-4 months? We used to text each other at least once a week up until 2 weeks ago. Im pretty sure she can sense the game and I dont want her to think I'm crawling back to her because I'm being needy...but at the same time I don't think she'd make the contact regardless of how alpha my facebook wall looks..
Give her a call, go for lunch just 1 day out of the blue.. it's not so much how you do it.. it's when..
you need to create a gap in her mind which is big... she literally needs to forget you.. there needs to be sufficient time for growth/change. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news man but this is gunna take a lot longer than 2-4 months.. (in most cases) ..
I'm yet to discover a sure fire way to slip out of the friend zone quickly.. Simply put, you both have to change into different people so the friend zone doesn't exist. Your no longer friends..
However.. when you do initiate contact, you guys will be able to develop rapport quicker and you will both get your "nostalgia on" which will induce good feelings.. (when reminiscing you never think of the bad parts) This can accelerate the process of comfort and trust.. Like catching up with old friends.. if there was any attraction at any point before.. you being a stronger/more successful individual will ensure the attraction is still there.