Here's some background on the girl-
I worked with her for a good while. She really digs me. But whether she digs me as a friend or someone she's interested in, I'm not sure. My friends say she "definitely wants my dick" and that "i better tap that". She says I'm her favorite person to work with. But we have never hung out outside of work. We attempted to hang out plenty of times but some unforeseen circumstances have always come up. Then I went away to college, but I'm back for one week and I need some money, so I'm working at the same place.

Here are my questions:

I picked up Neil Strauss's book The Game and I'm up to Step 3 chapter 3. He's talking about using the hypnotist's patterns.

1. Would using this pattern be a bad idea?
I don't want to scare her or freak her out by using mind control. But I'm in it to win it and I'll do what I have to, to win.
Upon browsing the forums, it seems like a lot of people are against it, please ignore this question.

2. What do I do if when I kiss her she brings up her boyfriend?

As for the speed seduction tactics discussed in chapter 3 of the game if you are bad with these tactics you will come across as foolish and it will throw your game of like you said. I am not sure completely what you mean by you second question but I am thinking you mean what if she says she has a boyfriend when you try to kiss her. Just use mystery's kiss tactic if you don't know it message me back.

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It sounds like she is very into you. You don't need any routines or techniques in this instance... just take her out for a drink, have some fun with her, and make out. Don't be afraid to fail... there are more fish in the sea.