The Convo:

I've been in love once...and other than that guy, I've never felt so close to a guy before. I'm going to admit my guard's startin to come back up now, but that doesnt change the fact that my feelings are really strong for you.


My Question:

What causes her guard to start to come back up?

Also, How do I get rid of it. . .


I have two intentions with this girl, of course I want to have sex with her, but I've also been thinking about a relationship even though it would be quite stupid. We're both in High School and I'm graduating before her, that is why I say it's stupid. I've told her before that I'm not looking to be in a relationship this year since I'm only going to be starting it just to end it when I graduate, she understands this. It feels like we're in a relationship only without the titles and restrictions. How would I go about dealing with this "guard" that she has?

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You are in high school. You aren't ready for a serious relationship and especially she is not if she is an underclassman. She doesn't have the emotional maturity TO BE control her emotions because she is a child.