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PostPosted: Sun Mar 13, 2011 6:53 pm 
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I will go for pretty much any girl that is a 7 or higher, and I don't even care if they have the worst personality ever, I would still be super attracted to them just because they are cute..so what I'm asking is how do you higher your standards and stop feeling attraction the second you meet a cute women? any help will be much appreciated.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 14, 2011 11:01 am 
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Its pretty simple really. You just have to pin point what qualities you value most and what personallity types you vibe with most. Then, you screen the women you date for these things.


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It's pretty simple.

If you're just out to fuck them, then you won't really develop those standards, because you'll fuck and chuck and never really have to deal with them.

If you prefer to actually get to know her as well as fucking, and want to keep multiple girls on the go at any one time, then you'll want to have girls who are not only hot, but are actually fun to hang out with, who you'd be proud to introduce to your friends, and who enjoy a few of the same things as you so you have shit to do together apart from sex.

Once you get to that stage, you'll want to add screening questions in to your interactions, so that you don't waste time on a date with a girl who is boring or retarded or just doesn't get you or find you interesting or funny. I'm past the point now where I'll modify how I interact in order to get a more positive response from a woman. I'd rather have a few girls HATE me for just saying what I feel unapologetically, if it means I find others who really get me and find me amazing.

So yeah, Mr_Amazing said, just figure out what personality attributes you really value, and just develop some qualification material around those.

Qualification can be as simple as "are you spontaneous?" or it can be in the form of a story about how you love hanging out with this one group of friends because they're always just randomly going bungee-jumping or skydiving for no reason, and you love that sense of adventure and spontaneity, and then either wait for her to jump in with one of her own, or prompt her with "do you have friends like that?" or "have you ever done anything like that?"

If she says that she loves being spontaneous or tells a story about that, then you give her a compliment about it.

If she comes out with something I honestly don't appreciate, then I'll make a little joke, maybe mime that I'm taking notes and be like "note to self - do not date this girl" or something. I'm smiling and being funny, but I'm actually communicating I do have certain things I like, and she kinda just failed a test.

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