ive become a go to guy for problems. im nt sure if it is good or not. im trying to give off an assertive yet wise persona in highschool. someone that understands things and can solve problems, and therefore is higher value. but im not sure if it is good. ive heard that i might be becoming everyones bitch. the one they go to when they need a good moan and know i dont respect my time enough to not listen to them. what do you think??

you are talking aobut girls here...right?? the way you talk about becoming someones b*tch is more of a guy vs guy term.....not really a girl vs guy term. so no, i dont think thats anything to fear. you can actually learn lots about girls in general while in highschool if you have many female friends....when they have issues and spill their heart out to you --- it gives you a unique chance to LEARN about women in general. not likely the greatest for getting laid at the moment though....but good long term.

so it depends what you want --- now or later.

but if you want now....then yes, you shouldnt be known as that guy, cause the only reason 99% of them are gonna open up to you is because they feel as if nothing sexual will come of it and therefore they relax and open up. (dont get me wrong, you MAY be able to take advance of one or two of these situations...but its not likely and not easy)

ok thanks. i guess i just meen being the beta afc that will listen to them on hte phone because he has nothing better to do.