Hey Guys

Been away from pick up for quite some time for what I thought was a good reason... Then I discovered she was not the one.
Thinking AA was way behind me I went out and start approaching people. The night started out awkward and progressively got worse. I decided to head home when a woman 3 times my age wanted to hang out....

4 Days from now there is an opportunity to go to the City and hang out, but after last night the AA is kicking my ass.

Any tips for getting back in the game?

Many thanks
Al

Like nike says " JUST DO IT "

You should be approaching everything with a vagina right now..

I want to hit a local bar tomorrow, but my wingman is too busy breaking my balls about yesterday. He will not be free until the joke runs out.
I know I need to get out .... nervous as hell though. And it's not a good place to be while plowing through shit tests

Al

Sounds to me your making excuses...

When I have no one to go out with, I go out alone..

When I don't wanna go out, I push myself anyways...

Why?

Because I like having my phone explode with txt messages all day, and like having this cutie next to me in my bed painting her toenails right now..

Listen we all gotta do things we don't wanna do in life, that's how the cookie crumbles my friend..

Suck it up and go out, even if it is only for a hour or so...

You win. Night out it is!
I will post how it went when I get back.....or the morning after

Al

ok! here's how the night went:

1

2-stet outside the venue. I rolled up and started the conversation. I said that one of them looked just like my friend from work (she did) and we talked about her car and how i should race her one of these days. They both seemed techy and pretty cool. My wing arrived and we headed in closing on a good note.

2

2 set at the table opened up fairly well. One girl was waiting for her boyfriend and the other was along for a ride, waiting for some AFC who was supposed to be fun. She said I set a standard pretty high. Since she wasn't all that good looking (pretty rocking body i may add) i didn't hang around. The other girl was shooting me strange looks and pretended not to hear me over the music. Fine... Moving on

3

Few more of our friends arrived (like wtf) there were a few girls who were of no interest to me or my wing, so we shot shit for a while. Even more people rolled in and we hand to get 2 tables moved together.... pretty large group but no room to move around.
I found the two asian girls i talked to outside and re-initiated the conversation. At this point they were pretty bombed and one was hanging on to my arm. She said i looked good in black (my usual attire) but was very bubbly. Not understanding half of what she said i excused myself. Her friend was trying to shake off an AFC who rolled into the set after me. I walked away without cock blocking. Whatever.

4

a 3-set with 2 girls and 1 guy. I opened up a guy and started talking about car stuff (turbo vs supercharger and exhaust on a Lancer) girls were started to look bored so i started talking about their dream cars. At this point the dude started cockblocking like a maniac. He cracked a few lame jokes and girls laughed at them. I was getting aggravated to the point of clocking the fucker out. Decided to walk away

5
cute blonde was all by herself at the bar so i started the conversation with a typical opinion opener. It was a bout a necklace i was wearing. She was enthusiastic for some time and i started falling for her. After about 10 minutes i went for a number and it went sour. she said she was waiting for someone (wtf at 10:30?) Maybe.

overall i walked out with a felling that i could have done more, but my friends were getting a bit obnoxious (table grew to 10-15 people). i called it a night wishing i had a few numbers or someone to spend a night with...

Any tips and comments are appreciated
Al