So, I'm cool with girls and random people saying that, but my friends just told me that what I'm doing is lame. Like, I do a lot of daygame, and when I see a hot girl, I'll go for it.
I guess I'm just kinda bummed because he is a friend of mine. He told me that I shouldn't go looking/chasing girls. I should just wait and the right one will find me.

Do you guys ever get this from your friends?

your friends are either scared, holding you down on their level, or gay.

HAHAHAHA! Not laughing at you, but the fact is your friend is making excuses for himself not to go out seeking out women he desires, he wants an excuse to not have any game. My identical twin brother sometimes says PUA is a bit lame but he was a PUA until he met his woman, so that's expected. Don't mind your friend, he's jealous of your confidence to go out and get the women you want.

Your friends are morons. They're not alpha males, they're not AFC's, they're AFF's. You know what that is? Average Frustrated Fucks! Don't listen to that BS. You got the balls to approach a hot girl in the day, while they just stare at her, and jack off to her later that night. Forget your friends, there jealous or something...

^this

I get the same shit from three different kinds of people, see which category your friends fit:

1. Married, engaged, in a LTR
2. Guys with no game who can't even imagine chatting up a random hottie
3. Virgins

Sadly, some friends will avoid your presence, because they are actually that uncomfortable. So be it, don't let their AA keep you from having fun.

He is jealous and try to make you feel bad because you are successful with women and not him.

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Sorry for my english mistakes.

my buddy tried to manipulate me out of my not giving a fuck attitude cause hes jealous its hilarious, but thinking about pickup its just a lil bit out there cause its not normal, its not normal to go up to random ppl n chat them up its straight up downplayed by our society kinda like weed, your buddy listens to society and not his desires, you listen to your desires, he looks at you and says youre weird.

Tyler Durden said that in the PUA journey youll be known as "that guy" meaning youll be the weirdo, the creeper, the awkward random guy, the only guy who spends more time in the mall then the mall rats who shop there. youll be "that guy" until the day youre a straight up playa

It's actually very simple.

They can't do what we do. They hate us for it.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I believe that anything in life is worth putting in work, time, and effort. Something that is given has so much less value than something that is earned, in my opinion. There are hundreds of thousands of women you will pass by in life, and how many will the average man talk to? A hundred, five hundred, maybe? Even if you believe there is one perfect person, it just sounds lazy to me to think that the one person will come to you! Women are practically ordered not to approach guys. The responsibility is always on us, so who can honestly believe that an amazing woman will just walk up and introduce herself. So why not just increase your odds of finding a great one by meeting as many as possible? That's not creepy, that's increasing those chances.

Chance is a word I hate using. People who talk about fate, destiny, chance, etc always sound lazy to me. They make excuses. Their relationship fails because it "wasnt meant to be?" Bull, either they messed up or their partner did. I know pickup can turn some guys into borderline cultists, but there is nothing wrong with wanting to put a little work into something that so many people consider to be such an important thing in life when we talk about sex and relationships. My honest opinion? Your buddy has seen at least a dozen girls since finding out what you do that he wishes he could've done the same with. But he freaked, he panicked, and he worried about what bystanders would say. And it is certainly easier to look at people who DO and call them weird than to look internally and say you aren't getting it done.

Your friend is saying that out of jealousy, plain and simple. It's a defense mechanism to make him feel better about himself. EVERY straight guy wishes they could approach women confidently - it's natural.

Your friend is either gay or scared and trying to hold you down to make himself feel better. Also, tell him to stop watching romantic comedies unless he is with a chick.

WTF does he think is going to happen with him doing nothing lol. Nothing comes from doing nothing. Someone has to do something and it is rarely the females other than giving IOI's. There will be people that do nothing. They depend on the people that do something, not the other way around. In most cases, girls go out with guys that made a move on them. They don't go out with the guy that stood meekly by and did nothing..waiting. That is a female attitude and usually limited to teen years.

If you succeed at this stuff, he will feel like a failure, this is typical case of jealousy..He probably does not even know he is doing it, is in his inner core... Keep doing what you are doing, people will do stuff like this to you all your life, this is just the beginning...

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