I am new to this forum, and not too long ago I met a friend's friend who is beautiful. I tried hitting on her the AFC chump way and it was rebuffed. I tried asking her out over facebook and of course got no answer... So since i know that like any other sarge, there's nothing to lose, I decided to try a newbie neg...

She was constantly inviting her friends to events on facebook and posting like a million updates on the event. This subsequently filled peoples mailbox with messages from facebook, which was annoying.

So i sent her a message saying "hey whats with all the messages, I think I'll need to defriend you its getting really annoying!"

So she got back to me saying "sorry i didnt mean to bother you... i'll keep you off my event lists if you want." I knew that I would see her soon at a party so I decided not to answer. At the party, which was last night, I was hitting on some girl, and she barrels up to my side and just stares at me. At first I don't pay attention, after about 10 seconds I say whats up and act like nothing was amiss. Unfortunately when she brought it up, the AFC in me decided to say "oh really, I left you that message? I was probably really drunk..." Not assertive at all. Nevertheless, I feel like there was something there and she liked the neg.

2 questions. The correct response would have been, like usual, the truth- "Yea its nothing personal, I just don't need my mailbox spammed..." right?

Also, what is the next course of action? I got pulled away and so did she so I couldn't try all these new tools im using.

Any ideas?

I want to know what she said when she brought it up at the party.