Hi guys!

This is my first post and I defs need and expert opinion on something: I'll get a number/kiss close a girl, and then I find out she goes home with some other guy, be it her bf or some random dude. Wtf?!

Any advice to help me in this area would be awesome dudes.

you're just wrongly assuming that k-closing/number closing means anything. Nowadays until you've slept with a girl 3+ times, her hamster won't be spinning on your tracks.

If she goes home with her bf, it means she's going out with a beta and u can still open her later. Girls going out with betas are the easiest targets on earth besides fat cougars.

If she goes home with a random guy, it means you didn't escalate enough. You should've been that random guy.

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first of all
DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THE OTHER GUY..!!
No,Seriously if u do appear that u r worried abt the other guy it will screw up everything 4 u.
If she tries bringing it up just ignore it or make a comeback by using some cocky/funny line
eg:
She: I have a boyfriend.
You: Hmm...I have a goldfish(or any other pet...may or may not be 4 real)
She:(confused) What...!!??
You: I thought we were just saying things that didn't matter(slight cockiness in tonality & act a bit innocent...dont overdo the innocent part if u think u'll overdo it just leave out the innocent part)

Just carry on your game buddy...text game her a bit and make yourself valued in front of her (Text game and/or Real Game)...when u meet her next,be sure to use more kino...n then as things progress try setting up a date...maybe try a to go for a lay too.

And NEVER BRING UP THE OTHER GUY YOURSELF!! EVER!!
(For u he is just some random existance and nothing else)

PS- add more details about it so we can try helping in a more precise manner

Good points...
Its probably a little immature of me to think that a number means anything serious. I read some more on escalation and I think that's the key. Thanks man. I'm cutting and running with the number close instead of growing some balls and escalating.

As for the bf situation, by the sounds of what you said I handled it well. I hooked up with a girl from my college at a party. She had a bf back home which I already knew about. I didn't mention him at all and when she did I just shrugged it off. I was gonna back right off, but I'm gonna see where it goes now.
I'll have to remember that line too

I'm not sure I asked my question as well as I'd have liked to. What I meant was:
If I'm sarging a girl in a club, and I leave to talk to someone else/do something else and I come back and she's with another guy, how do I deal with the other guy? Befriend him? Cockblock him? Move on?

Thanks for the help! Really appreciate it.