I know, we don't give a fuck about what others think of us. But I have this problem.

Since Game (in a broad sense) is a big part of who I am, sometimes I introduce parts of it to people who are becoming part of my social circle and often times I wonder if that is validation seeking...

I catch myself occasionally bragging and seeking validation and I try to be self correcting and with people that are not part of my life I can fix that.

But lets say I meet a cool girl and I want her to be part of my life (friend, ltr, whatever). Or I meet a cool guy. And they ask me If I have a gf? Usually I tell them I like going out and seeing more than one girl. And I think it comes across as bragging and being weird. I'm not sure if I should be sharing so much. Or so early.

How do you guys deal with this?

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I have to return some videotapes...

Read the first quote in my signature.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

That is a BIG PROBLEM.

Game cannot be what you are. Do you think Tiger Woods sits around thinking "I AM GOLF". He might, but if he does he will SUCK in the next tournament he plays in, and he will lose even more fans.

You are not "game". You are not a "pua" either.

Neither of those statements above are insults, just facts. Do you get it ?

What do outside people think of "game" or "pua" ? Opinions vary a lot, depends on the person and the context, but the most common response will be to laugh, or say it is totally pathetic. Some will go further and accuse you of being unethical or even evil.

"pathetic loser manipulative lying scumbag who is too useless to get laid without trickery" -- that's what a PUA or a guy with "game" is to the people who are not interested in it.

I am a poster on this site, but even I will be repulsed if some douchebag walks up and says "I'm a pua".

Did you ever see Legend of Ron Bergundy ? He says "I'm sort of a big deal" and its one of the best jokes in the movie.

BrianFL2, you got it all wrong. Maybe I wasn't concise enough.

When I say Game in a broad sence I mean beeing a cool guy and have a great life. Women are just narural consequence of that. I don't lie to girls, don't use trickery and am definitely not a "pua". I also can't stand those guys, and see some guys on FB and they use pua in their name. That's just pathetic.

It makes sense what SiNfUl says and that's what I'll try do to. Not reveal that much.

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I have to return some videotapes...