Should you have sex with your ex?



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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 6:56 am 
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Should you have sex with an ex?

You broke up with her two weeks ago. She wants to have sex with you. She is chasing you. You don't have feelings for her anymore but You know she still has feeling for you. You tell her that it is gonna be only physical and set friends with benefits rules with her. She is cool with that but she is probably trying to win you back. The last thing you want is to hurt her, playing with her emotions and leading her on.

What do you do: have sex or no?


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 10:05 am 
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Yeah im goin through the exact same problem, But it was an easy solution for me as she is a 6ft2 blonde model and purely physical worked fine for me, but yeah probably not so nice on her part


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 4:10 pm 
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Should you have sex with an ex?
Uh, no. She is an ex for a REASON. And if an ex wants sex with you there is a high chance she want to get back with you.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 4:17 pm 
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If she can answer for herself why wouldn't you? I mean, if you made clear to her that you don't have any feelings, other than sexual desire, for her, and she agrees with that..
But why did you broke up in the first place?

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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 4:22 pm 
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sex with an ex ?

depends on how much pain and drama you are willing to accept in your life.

The sex will probably be good though.


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PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2011 9:12 pm 
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I broke up with her because she was really jealous and insecure. It was really painful for her. Her best friend told me she took pills yesterday with alcohol. I'm backing off or it will kill her. I was thinking that a baby step breakup would work since she asked to be friends with benefits. But i don't think i will try it with her. It's not really the time to try new things like i would normally do. Plus, in the long run, she will be hurt more...

That's what i think, but maybe a being fwb with her won't be so bad, she wants it. I'm confused.


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2011 3:25 am 
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my response: NO.

It violates the abundance mentality I strive for (and admittedly sometimes violate)

About 2 yrs ago, my ex, who is 5'10 and has the body of a stripper, manipulated me into an 'innocent' meeting. Any man would be tempted by her. We had not seen each other for almost 3 years. She wastes little time and suggests we get a hotel room for the night and just fuck for 12 hrs straight.

I had thought she might do this. I got in my car and drove home. because i knew that would be like opening pandora's box of terrors. a mega mindfuck waiting to happen.

Yes - the sex would have been mindblowing. still not worth it.


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