Hi guys!
I would like to ask you guys some questions about how to "game" in some specific locations. I live in Norway, and here it is normal to go to a "vorsspiel" (from German, means pre-party), and drink and meet friends and get new ones before you hit the town.
The pre-parties are usually a little quieter that the clubs and you usually sit around in a living room with about 15 people, for this reason, little Kino and body language can be used as an advantage (of course, you can use a lot, but little sexually, as you can't isolate, and the girl is usually not comfortable being looked at by everyone if you're hitting it off).
In contrast with clubs, where you have a excellent opportunity to communicate through body language, but then less verbally.
An advantage, in addition to be able to talk more naturally, you get a "bounce", while you move to town. If you found someone at the pre-party you would like to close, this is a very good thing, if not, you at least enter the club with 15 other people who enjoy your company.
So to my question, what part of my game should I tone down, or up in this specific situation? She can't blow me off, since we're both stuck in that place, so being to close to the line seems a bit risky. Everyone is usually open and very friendly in these situations, how should I go about standing out from the crowd, be interesting, but still not weird if 15 people are listening in on the conversation?
This might me a little messy thread, but i think you know what I'm getting at!
I appreciate the help, thanks!
CHAT
