So I started talking to my ex again, we cut things off when I joined the military about 2 years ago. I'm trying to eventually f-close with her when I come back to the states for my visit. Here's what has happened.

All game has been successful and smooth. Until about 3 weeks ago. I know she's really busy with her work and school so I only message her every few days. Until recently when we started chatting online. We started talking the same time everyday for about 2 hours for about 3 days straight. After that I saw a post on her facebook that she was frustrated. Maybe she's just stressed out right now?

Anyway, she hasn't responded to my messages or texts and I'm pretty sure she's ignoring them. I fucked up tho cuz I sent her a message telling her I'm not trying to frustrate or annoy her or anything. And she still didn't respond to that.

I know she has or had feelings for me. IOIs were through the roof.

What's going on here.. and do I just need to let this one fly?

Thanks fellas.
-Strick

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"Hey, can you help me sort of wash my back?"
-Neil Strauss

we talked at the same time, for hours, three days in a row...

that's a pretty big violation.

we all know that excitement and suspense are key to making a woman's gina tingle. seems you got too comfortable, must not be enough for her that you are half a world away and thinking of her, she needs more, more, more.

mix it up!

i say freeze a sistah out

Yup, kinda saw that coming.

Freezing is definitely the plan right now. If I don't get anything back from her until I get back into the states (approx 2 months). Do I hit her up when I get back? Or sooner?

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"Hey, can you help me sort of wash my back?"
-Neil Strauss

i'm going to defer this question to one of the forum elders. i think you should do a gentle freezeout of some sort. but for exact technique, not too sure.

Are you trying to re-gain the relationship?

It's been two years and we've both changed alot. I want to at least be on good terms with her. But to answer your question.. Yes, I would like to revamp the relationship.

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"Hey, can you help me sort of wash my back?"
-Neil Strauss

I don't understand the logistics. You're coming back to visit . . . for how long? And you want to fuck her, then you will head back overseas, but you want to reestablish a relationship with her?