Guys,

so had first date with a girl I'd been chatting to for a while. Petit girl who's a solid 9 with a super hot body and pretty face. I was brutally rude to her for 2 weeks, then she asked me out and gave me her number etc.

We had the first date I took her to this hip Japanese restuarant/bar overlooking one of the parks here in London, we got a table by the window/balcony at night, had cocktails and sushi. She had a great effing time. Obviously. It's me

I txted her afterwards to check she got home ok said we'd go out again in a couple of weeks when I have a meeting near London Bridge where she works. Left it four days because I was busy banging other girls, hitting the bars with the guys, etc; then called her.

We had some normal/comfort conversation, before I went back to being a bastard while dropping in some lifestyle stuff. Eventually I said I'd take her to a comedy club. She's said she's busy with some family thing on the day I told her I'd take her out but wants to go out another day, maybe in the upcoming week rather than 2 weeks from now and so I should text her which day is good.

Now I don't like being told what to do especially by a woman. Whenever she's told me to doing anything before like call her, I've been like you can call me, etc. So I don't want to be a chump and txt her and be all like "Uhh yeah uhh i was wondering if you can do blahday rather then wednesday etc. maybe if you're not busy?"

So I figured I'd just leave it week before I contact her at all again, so she thinks I've forgotten or am not interested then, phone her up and tell her I'm taking her out on the Thursday.

Thoughts?

Dude, chances are she does have family stuff, shes already made plans, it doesn't mean it's a shit test.

Usually I'd say that you shouldn't break and do something because shes asked you to, but I think you should. You've already showed her you wont take her shit by making her call you first, rather than you calling her because shes asked you to. Doing one thing and changing one plan to suit her isn't going to make a huge difference.

If you want to hang out with her, then arrange another date when shes said that shes free. In the meantime, continue banging other women and don't worry so much about the outcome.