i met her in college and i told her ill let her in on a secret if she behaves
and i txted her have you been naughty or good this morning
she said good haha =]
how can i escalate further and invite her to a party or a movie or just to hang out
+ im very comfortable with her

If you said she is already comfortable with you. Start small, like taking her to a coffee shop. Since it's a regular spot for people to visit both male and female, it's not a big deal for her to join you. After you do that then you can escalate it to a club or movie, because you would have built up on you'll relationship. But if you skip str8 to a club and she barely knows you. It might be too much a jump too fast. If she is the wild type with alot of energy. Then yes I would just invite her str8 to a club. So it all depends on the type of girl she is.

good luck maan

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Hey VS ... an interesting question.
One thing to avoid is those "naughty or nice" text messages. She said "good" so it sort of shot down your hope of her having a playful reply. Though if she said "naughty" what would you have added to that anyway? Its a 'no win' text message and in my opinion, something that should be avoided.

If this is a person who you have no problem talking with...does this also mean you know much about who she is? What she enjoys or doesnt like....what type of food she does/doesnt like...movies, tastes, etc???? --- that would be helpful info.

But lets assume you dont know that info. A nice way to move from this point would be to call her (middle of the day) and invite her to do something that others are also doing. I dont mean friends, but just other random people ie: a concert. Something that there is some buzz about. You can do this by saying youve got two tickets and a friend just bailed on you....you arent sure if she likes that style of music but you were wondering if she had plans and wanted to keep you company. Keep in mind though, if she says no or that she cant --- then you are stuck for that night. You could surely say that you just gave away the tickets, but that makes you look foolish....so if she does say no to that request, then id cancel out that night of making plans with her. Another thing to ask her to (depending on what the weather is like where you live) is to a park or outdoor show of sorts.

If you dont mind....tell me a bit more about the type of person you are -- that will give me a better idea as to what you can say. The person and they WAY they deliver a message is much more important than what the words actually are.

In the end, you can always text her a few times during the day about just random nice things....and then send a text asking if she wouldnt mind meeting for a drink -- youve had a long day....just one quick drink...youd rather not grab it alone, you will pick up the tab and even pick her up and take her hope if she would be so kind as to keep you company. its friendly, its short and sweet, and most people who have any interest in you at all (even as just a friend) would surely say yes to something like this. Just remember, keep it to one drink---if you make it 3 or 4 she may get upset that you werent honest about the 1-drink.

hope that helps and again, share more about yourself and what you know about her so people can help you more specifically in the future. best of luck.
Cheers.

ya bro that post above me sums it up.

umm all u rlly gtta ask her if if she wants to go to a party . i mean, thats it. like four or five wordds. u dnt have to make it into some like naughty nice whole thing yallready sent that text. if u were gona send follo ups (like the dude above me said) u wud need to alrdy hav ur convo plannd out feelme i mean. like look dude,, its not about like make evry txt so naughty nice its about thinkn about the texts i nthe onger run, where u wana lead each convo n2 u feelme??

umm messag me dude . sounds lke college is wet . nice bro

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