Ok guys... here's the lastest with this girl. Need some advice on what I did wrong and what I can do next.
To keep things short im cutting right to the texts that matter.
FEB 26:
Me- Sounds fun, Im partying at my fraternity house haha
. Well bummer we didn't get to party together this weekend, lets go out for dinner sometime this week?
Her- I know! Well yes we can
Me- Sounds good
have fun tonight!
Her- You too!
Her You too!
March 1
Me- Hey, what are you up to?
Her- Im at Cheddars for my friends bday. you?
Me- Nice, I love cheddars.. get the chicken tenders every. time. lol. I kist got out of a meeting. What are you doing tomorrow night?
Her- lol it was so good!! well i badly need to study for a test thursday but thats all
Me- Cool, I don't have any plans as of nowif you wanted to take a break from studying and hangout.
Her- alright just text me tomorrow
Me- Sounds good, is it another math test you're going to bomb Steph?
haha
Her- haha no not this time! its a psychology test
Me- Oh no... lol. I might be able to help you with that though! I did really well in my psych class.. back in the day haha. Are you stressing over it?
Her- haha no its not hard at all
Me- Nice! you won't have to study a lot for it lol. Don't judge me! but... im drinking haha. btw the blues are getting killed :p
Her- haha idc if i could i would be! Cooool
im sad now
Me- Haha good! you might be able to keep up with me then
. Have a good night! ill tty tomorrow and we'll get something going.
(No response back from her)
March 2nd
Me- Hey, hows the studying going?
Her- (hour later) Havn't started im working out haha
Me- (20 mins later) haha nice, Im still down to hangout later if you want to come over here or chill at your place.
(No response back from her the whole day.. and thus she flakes on me)
I know that shes interested in me cause she asked my friends at the club where i was like 3 times. and she called up a girl i know and asked her about me.. and the girl said good things and had my back.
So question is... what did i do wrong here boys? and where can i take it from here?
My frat is throwing ahuge party for mardi gras this friday.
Here is what I was thinking for a plan of action.. don't text her today to see if she'll text me first apologizing for yesterday. If that doesn't happen.. Ill text her friday evening and give her a casual invite out to the party. Should I bring up her blowing me off wednesday?
- thanks
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