I'll try to keep it short and simple..

Met this HB at a club and she was giving a lot of IOI's and we flirted for ages. Her best friend told me later that she's been in a LTR for 4 years so I decide to move on for the best but..

The next day she adds me on Facebook, flirts again and then (sorry to the kid) I find out that the guy she's with is a fat chump.

She's taken me out for dinner and paid (I know! wtf right?!) but I just don't know where to go from here?

I'm getting the feeling that she's frustrated with this guy and wants a bit of fun and attention from someone else but I'd hate to be the one to mess up her relationship.

Please help me out here guys! I'm new to the game and as much I love hanging with this chick I can't be her BFF..a man has his needs lol!

Any suggestions will do seriously! Cheers

Its not rocket science. Invite her over and fuck her. After you fuck her, then you can dictate where the relationship goes. No more dates though, unless she is paying. lol

I'd say be honest with her. I think its only ethical that you don't step into something which can and may cause a huge mess. Just be open and up front that you don't really want to get into this whole triangle. I think she might even respect you more for being honest and up front on this.