I've read through 60 year's books and I'm completely thrown off. If all of his stuff is true then the quiet background guy would always get the girl. If this was true then I'd be raking in the chicks as I am usually quiet and focus on body language and eye contact than actually speaking. Can anyone explain how his philosophy is actual game and not just a book about not talking?

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Do you do proper kino escalation? That is also an important part of his method as I have read it.

Let me explain 60 years tell that time is precious so its numbers game in 100 girls probably 20 wanna hook up with you so, you need to eliminate fast the other 80, if you escalate the vibe you will eliminate all the girls that arent interested, only the girls that wanna hook up with you will stay. Normaly the quiet guy has fear has fear of DIRECT EYE CONTACT dont use that blank stare, or even hold face to face and coming closer being afraid of proximity. If she continues with you bearing all the awkaward moments simply because you on first second try to pass to seduction phase you are game on, ofc alot of girls will leave, but the ones that stays you go for his KINO MOVE if she accept you know what do , at least I hope so.

I have girl friends, that prefer the quiet the MYSTERIOUS ONE but if you are jackass sitting in corner wating for her to make a move geezus, you are just socialy awkward.

A big misconception with using 60s method is that you have to be quiet or talk less than her. This isn't really true. You can talk less and it will walk, you can talk more and it will work. Personally i'm a very high evergy person and very social, I love to talk and do so a lot. Just clearing that up.

Second, what people should really take away from 60s method is that ESCALATION is attractive and a must!

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I am still reading parts and from what I just read...he pretty much said that when you have women laughing and wanting you to keep talking, that you're actually pushing them away. Here's the actual quote from it, I'm begging someone to decipher it.
Honestly, what the hell. I have no clue what he's talking about. He also mentions that women will never create a seductive vibe for you, essentially he's saying women will never be attracted to you enough to try and show their interest? This is all very confusing. Lots of people say how great his stuff is for introverts, but it sounds a lot like he's telling people it's ok not to do anything, you'll still get girls.

Very confused.

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As far as you're concerned you'd better be the coolest motherf***er on this planet.

When you are keeping THE VIBE being all seductive , maintain eye contact (looking like weirdo) she will try and ease the tension and this is one of the way smile and waiting for you to reinitate, its a trap because she is WAITING FOR YOU TO START THE CONVERSATION.

So how do I avoid the trap and get her to restart?

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SHe will try and ease the tension YOU JUST HAVE TO CONTINUE WHAT YOU ARE DOING.

Wait for the tension to build up and watch the magic happen. Maintain eye contact though, looking away and having no conversation will make it awkward tension instead of sexual.

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